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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

A beat down? That's too much


i think that's a big part of the scenario. Some women don't know how to respond to it. Who do i get mad at and how far do i go? most women (realistically speaking) aren't about to catch an assault charge. 

this chick thought it would make her look insecure. others go the opposite and try to make themselves look crazy. 


The bigger part of the scenario is it wouldn't even have to come to a beat down or anyone acting crazy for that matter..people recognize weak people and will try them on any account..you can get your point across to someone in a well-composed manner, but if ole girl wants to keep being disrespectful then it has nothing to do with the husband...it is about her continuing to be disrespectful and how the wife chooses to handle the situation would be fair from that moment on. Now, of course the way to handle it would be to not allow the girl in the house anymore..outside of the house it is on the husband, but you won't disrespect me in my house.

BTW: there is such a thing as beat down that does not lead to an assault charge LOL
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Originally posted by khivey khivey wrote:



The bigger part of the scenario is it wouldn't even have to come to a beat down or anyone acting crazy for that matter..people recognize weak people and will try them on any account..you can get your point across to someone in a well-composed manner, but if ole girl wants to keep being disrespectful then it has nothing to do with the husband...it is about her continuing to be disrespectful and how the wife chooses to handle the situation would be fair from that moment on. Now, of course the way to handle it would be to not allow the girl in the house anymore..outside of the house it is on the husband, but you won't disrespect me in my house.

BTW: there is such a thing as beat down that does not lead to an assault charge LOL



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wow---
 
so many wrongs here! this woman is weak and insecure, she allows women to throw themself at her husband and says or does nothing?? where is her self respect? u have to teach people how to treat you...did she think tryin to dress sexy would work? oh please she is insecure and weak!
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Originally posted by miana79 miana79 wrote:

wow---
 

so many wrongs here! this woman is weak and insecure, she allows women to throw themself at her husband and says or does nothing?? where is her self respect? u have to teach people how to treat you...did she think tryin to dress sexy would work? oh please she is insecure and weak!
how is she weak and insecure becase of other people's actions?

Technically shes in a lose lose .. if she becomes a bitch .. shes then likely to be labelled delusional for perceiving that people want him. If she doesn't respond it becomes her fault for not putting her foot down to other women..

What's wrong with this picture?

Someone made a comment about married women fearing available women .. I can't remember who or what thread but that comment would fit into this discussion..

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Am I naive for not feeling like it's even a real issue? 
Ok, a woman wants my husband. Didn't she want him before I had his child? All of a sudden she wants him, or just that she think he's more likely to cheat now that the home is perceived as less sexy and adult? I don't get it. 

I wouldn't be worried about this. If our marriage is built on the right foundation, no one could shake it. We have a union, and God is the head. 


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1. She's very insecure about herself and her marriage
-I don't understand how your friend dresses up all sexy and inappropriate all the time to lure your husband and the next thing you do is dress sexy yourself.
-she snuggles closer to him on the couch and all you do is grit your teeth and walk off? No way.
2. He's already cheated or about to
-he likes the attention he's getting from the other women and he feebly wards it off. Note the snuggling above. He didn't leave, he was merely "uncomfortable"
-she kissed him on the cheek, serves him eggs while looking all sexxay
3. They have a dysfunctional relationship
-cause of all the above

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