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    Posted: Dec 05 2013 at 6:56am
Is it inappropriate for a married man to interact with a single woman on social media if it's not work related? Especially if they met after he got married?

My boyfriend and I met this real cool married couple at a game night last week. I mostly talked to the wife and my bf saw his friends and left the husband with us. Theylet me know that he's looking for work so I was like cool send me your resume and gave them my info.

The next day, they both added me on their Facebook accounts. Then he started following me on instagram. Which is whatever. He sent me his resume along with the "it was nice meeting you" blah blah blah. He started hitting me up on Facebook chat, nothing inappropriate but I kept it pretty mum bc I ain't into all that in the first place and secondly we don't have shyt to talk about.

His wife sent me a message last night asking if I added "her husband" (she didn't say his name) on Facebook. I said no and she asked that I delete him immediately. I went ahead and deleted him and I'm probably gonna delete her too

My sister said I never should have accepted his friend request but I didn't think it was a thing at the time

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote GG Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 05 2013 at 7:12am
How's your nephew?
I don't trust married men because they are men at the end of the day. Most of the ones I've met seem to be open to the possibility of something growing from a simple interaction. Plus his wife has her reasons to nip it in the bud.
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Married men should just delete their social media tbh.
Nothing good will come of it.
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Once he followed you on instagram you should've blocked him. Since both of them friended you ok, but you should've just ignored his attempts at communication after he said thanks. I do have married guy friends but I rarely talk to them unless it's asking for a life update or congrats on your baby or something like that. Nothing more because I'm not trying to deal with insecure or jealous wives
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I would have waited a bit before accepting the friend request. I would not have been social online with him. He has no business on Instagram with him being married. Facebook alone is a bit much but only a possibility since his wife also friended you. I would have gave her the side eye after she asked me to unfriendly him and trashed that resume. Next thing you know he would be at your job and here she come accusing you of being his side hoe.

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He's a cheater.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote AmiliaCabral Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 05 2013 at 7:38am
I wasn't tripping off him following me on instances bc it's only like 5 pictures of me on there anyway, I paint murals and make graffiti art all over ny, nj, Philly and ct as well as sell my paintings so it's 98% art. I have like 4k followers so I didn't think much of it nth

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Originally posted by SN2BPHD SN2BPHD wrote:

I would have waited a bit before accepting the friend request. I would not have been social online with him. He has no business on Instagram with you being married. Facebook alone is a bit much but only a possibility since his wife also friended you. I would have gave her the side eye after she asked me to unfriendly him and trashed that resume. Next thing you know he would be at your job and here she come accusing you of being his side hoe.


Word. Aint nobody got time for that!
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Qualified Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 05 2013 at 8:07am
Word to everything SN2BPHD said. They've probably had some problems before with him being a little to comfy on social media or he may have gotten caught up before, which has lead to her being extremely insecure??? IDK, but that married couple and social media is a touchy subject. Id like to hear from the married BHM'ers on here.
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Yah, I agreed, her husband probably has some sort or problem. I'm glad you deleted him, don't get I to their drama. I wouldn't want my husband adding every single female he met and chatting the female up. I don't think the wife was being crazy, the husband has probably done something in his past.
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