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    Posted: Jan 07 2013 at 8:31pm
we live in a new age were people are getting marred two weeks in months in etc knowing that 65% of married couples under the age of 30 will probably get a divorce how do you feel about getting married early in the relationship?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2013 at 8:34pm
I don't know if 17 months qualifies as "early" but we were only 23 and I have no regrets.  I've seen it work and fail both ways.  A successful marriage can't be gaged by statistics but rather the people in it.  
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2013 at 8:36pm
I thought it was always like that 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2013 at 8:38pm
I'm not sure yet.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2013 at 8:38pm

I got married early, so did my parents.  We are all still married.  Sometimes u go with ur gut & it works out

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2013 at 8:38pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I thought it was always like that 

It was worse...younger and quicker....but there was stigma to divorce. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2013 at 8:40pm

couples who been together a very long time and then marry tend to have less patience for each other.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2013 at 8:43pm
Im just asking because you know there people who get married for all the wrong reasons you have to be careful. I just believe you should know a person before you do because it can turn ugly and the person who you married may not be the same person after the honeymoon!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2013 at 8:44pm
i might've cheated if i married at 23, tbh.  i wasn't ready to end an independent lifestyle yet.  sex would've been irrelevant...i just would've felt suffocated.  i am on trend to marry at 30.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 07 2013 at 8:44pm
I wouldn't do it. Then again Im at a point in my life where IDK if I ever see myself getting married, or even being in another serious relationship at all to be honest.
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