Marlo Hampton Shares Her Life’s Struggle From Foster Care to Entrepreneur Pt.1

If anyone knows the power of TV editing, it’s Marlo Hampton. The label-obsessed glamazon made her mark on the last season of Real Housewives of Atlanta on an eventful trip to South Africa. She swiftly became a member of the Nene-named “Talls” crew, and butted heads with Sheree and Kandi, and infamously uttered the f-word. She later apologized for the last transgression but it didn’t help the already negative press she had received due to her past legal troubles.

Rumors circulated that Hampton had been arrested seven times and that she was an escort but in a forthright conversation with her good friend Nene Leakes, she revealed a softer, more level-headed side of herself and explained that you simply can’t believe everything you hear—especially in the case of reality TV, where it’s not wise to judge based on a one-hour snippet of the bigger picture.

“I wanted people to know where I came from. I mean all of the material stuff, that’s all fine and dandy, but at the end of the day that doesn’t make Marlo,” she said. “That’s a temporary high for me then it’s replaced with something else. I was thinking people would read between those lines but the way they showed it you couldn’t.”

In reality, Marlo Hampton is a woman who is a self-described work in progress.

“They may not [always] put Black women in the best light [on reality TV], but I’m not portraying to be a minister’s wife or the first lady,” she said. “I’m not hurting anyone. Everything that has happened has happened for a reason.”

The fashion enthusiast and entrepreneur is speaking of the hard knock life she endured throughout childhood. She grew up bouncing from foster home to foster home in Florida because her parents had substance abuse issues. But despite the setbacks, Hampton put herself through college and blossomed into an entrepreneur in the fashion world ranging from stylist to boutique owner. However, it is her Glam It Up Girls Foundation that is closest to her heart. Through Glam it Up Girls, Hampton empowers young girls, also in foster home situations, by taking them to brunch, taking them shopping and introducing them to concepts like money management and good personal hygiene in order to propel them triumphantly into adulthood.

“I can relate to them more. I wish I had my mom I could be with,” she said as through gritted teeth as her voice wavered from holding back tears. “I want them to see nicer things and know that they can have that too. I want them to see if Marlo can do it then so can we.”

Marlo, who is currently working on her latest project, a high-end consignment shop, had so much to say that we allowed her to speak her own words. In an exclusive interview with JETmag.com she breaks down her life and explains how she left home at nine but went from negative to positive based on her will to thrive.

We all became familiar with Marlo Hampton last season of Bravo’s highly rated reality show The Real Housewives Of Atlanta when, although never officially deemed a “housewife”, she quickly became one of the most talked about characters of the franchise. Many are wondering what the philanthropic fashionista has been up to since she did not to return to the cast this season. The Dark Room caught up with Marlo at her monthly retreat for her foundation, Glam It Up Girls!

Step inside The Dark Room to see how Marlo’s focus is no longer on cat fights and petty rumors but instead on helping underprivileged teen girls in foster homes transition into life on their own.

Online chatter has been frequent lately since Bravo debuted the newest season of Housewives and one familiar face was missing…Marlo Hampton. The feisty, oftentimes Chanel clad diva, was noticeably absent from the official promo photos, which left a lot of tongues wagging since many assumed Hampton would be named an official housewife since she played such a huge role in many of the most watched moments of the show last season.

We saw Marlo battle with many of the other women about clothes and class, but the biggest part of Marlo’s life was never shown. Raised in foster homes most of her life, Marlo created a project for girls called Glam It Up!, noted as “a place where girls can ask questions and can be inspired, where they can learn and can dream, where they can realize that despite the circumstances they may find themselves in today, there is tomorrow.”

Glam It Up!, which meets every month, met this month at Neiman Marcus Buckhead for a Christmas brunch. The girls were greeted by Marlo and Neiman Marcus’s publicist, Rebecca Brodnan. The day consisted of numerous things, including seminars on skin care, financing and fashion styling on a budget.

It didn’t take much to quickly realize how close to home this was to Marlo, even sending a car service last minute to pick up one of the girls after receiving a call from the young lady stating that her original transportation to the function was no longer willing to bring her. She told personal stories about her life as a foster child and how even today, a dysfunctional relationship with her birth mother is something with which she still struggles.

“I never had that mother/daughter relationship that every young girl deserves. My relationship with my mother was not and is still not perfect. I knew she loved me but because of her drug problem, I also knew that she was not capable of giving me what I needed, so I ended up in foster care.

I remember the loneliness and isolation of being shuttled from one foster home to another, never feeling as if I had family or a home. In many places I was not even provided a key to the door; hugs and attention were reserved for other girls. I always felt like a stranger, an outcast. I remember hopelessness and not seeing a way out. I remember the despair of thinking that the future would, for me, not become brighter. I stand here today a version of myself I had never dreamed possible. I could not have imagined arriving at a place of inner peace, confidence, strength, perseverance and drive. I could never have envisioned arriving at a place of gratitude, for through my hardships, my pain and endless difficult times I have become the woman I am today. Through all of my experiences, I came to be capable, independent, motivated, college educated, an entrepreneur and someone who desires more than anything to bring opportunities to young girls starting out in life just like me. So if you ladies need me, you call me, because I will be here. Even at times when you feel like no one else is.”

After speaking with the young ladies about her own troubled childhood, Marlo allowed them access to the “beauty bar”, which held skin care products by Clinique and allowed each girl to pick items to take home with them. On hand was Neiman’s product manager, Sabah Essa and Clinique rep, Donna Beara, to give the girls tips on how to maintain beautiful skin. Wells Fargo rep, Christy Ransom, was also present sharing how important it is to maintain and protect your credit score and finances while Marlo’s personal fashion stylist, Daniel Hawkins and Rebecca Brodnan, showed the girls how to get a Neiman’s look on a Target budget.

The day ended with Marlo gifting each girl with a special bracelet made by jewelry company, Monkey Sue.

So why the change of heart for the feisty fashionista? Marlo says there is no change of heart but just a piece of of her life that we all did not see.

“The Real Housewives Of Atlanta was a wonderful experience for me in so many ways because I learned so much about myself. I am grateful for the platform that it has given me to present positive things for my Glam It Up Girls in foster care and my Simply Giving project that helps those in need. I was also able to meet some beautiful people. NeNe Leakes is my girl and we continue to have a great time together. Cynthia Bailey is also fabulous and I consider her to be a great friend as well.”

So we had to ask Marlo what she thought about the other new additions to the cast.

“I haven’t had the opportunity to really get to know Kenya or Porsha but I can say that from what I can see, Kenya is a great “actress” and Porsha has a shape.”

-TDR

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Stylist Daniel Hawkins and Neiman Marcus Vice President, Mark Fillion.