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Man yall acting like thats the only way to have a kid. I sad adoption and a surrogate as well as alternatives. Simma
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Maybe I need to go get my glasses but I could have swore CB said 30, where did the 40 come from anyway?
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Originally posted by ppp38 ppp38 wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

40 is old to be having first child imo. 
Not too old. But old. But that's just me.


If i had to choose between life not being perfect at 27 (perfect job, house, car, etc), and having a child, and life being perfect at 40 and having a child, I would go with 27. As long as Im healthy, mentally prepared, and in a good, stable job.


While the odds of pregnancy are decreasing, the odds of miscarriage, pregnancy complications and birth defects are increasing. 

Biology is real. 


these new age heauxes dont wanna know that though


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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Man yall acting like thats the only way to have a kid. I sad adoption and a surrogate as well as alternatives. Simma

if there isnt anything wrong with my lady/reproductive parts, i really wouldnt wanna leave myself down to those options for no good reason
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Most 20 year olds aint ready to do shyt but apply for food stamps and wic...chile please 

I mentioned 27 when i spoke of "20s", because i think at that age many women are a far cry from who they were at 19/20.
20 is too soon, imo
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Man yall acting like thats the only way to have a kid. I sad adoption and a surrogate as well as alternatives. Simma

Do you know how expensive both of these options are? They are so costly, they aren't even real options for most. 

IMO, late 20's- early 30s is when people who want kids should consider settling down, certainly not 40. 


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Whilst risks increase with age. . statistically speaking more healthy babies are birthed by older moms than not
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

and before I get eye rolls, do I fry chicken yep, do I suck dack like I like it yep, do I have a husband , yep


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Originally posted by ppp38 ppp38 wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Man yall acting like thats the only way to have a kid. I sad adoption and a surrogate as well as alternatives. Simma


Do you know how expensive both of these options are? They are so costly, they aren't even real options for most. 

IMO, late 20's- early 30s is when people who want kids should consider settling down, certainly not 40. 



Yes i so which is why they would be an option for someone who is financially stable..also the prices vary non the less i also included. most peple shouldn't be parents anyway.. so ya.
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I lost a child in my 30's and gave birth in my 40's without trying . I think it depends on how you take care of yourself and family health history . My mom rip had me at 50 . She was in shock . No complications  but our food was free of cancer causing agents in the 60's . I use to want 4 children . Now i plan to get rid of things to avoid a pregancy at my age and adopt . My husband energy with our daughters seems like a 30 year old man . Hubby is 57 . I can't keep up with him . I plan to adopt next year or use a surrogate .
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