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MsBMW 
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 Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 10:36am |
 sbrownie84 wrote:
No but let's think of this on a deeper level. Why are some women beautiful, smart and stylish and are seen as very likable and a person to look up to but other women with the sane qualities are hated on.
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This baffles me as well
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MsBMW
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 10:51am |
Cream1970 wrote:
India, I totally agree. There is something broken and dysfunctional in the mind and spirit of a side chic. She can scream to the heavens about how much she loves herself but words are words. Actions tell the real story.
No, I don't owe the wife/girlfriend anything. But a person that respects themselves, will respect others, whether their mate does or not.
Yes, some men are dogs, but there are women that keep it moving, and there are women that are just as low and will be the bich in heat and lie down with him.
Just because he's serving sh*t doesn't mean you have to grab a spoon and gobble it down. Lol
It used to gas my head up when men in relationships would hit on me. Now, it's insulting. Because a committed man continuing to hit on me makes me wonder "What am I exuding that makes him think that I'm so desperate and pathetic that I would be comfortable with another woman's scraps? "
I'm so Blessed to get to the level of self love are respect for myself and others that I've gotten to. It took a little longer than I would've expected because as I was doing it, sadly I didn't feel bad. I just realized one day, " This isn't healthy. I'm worth so much more than this. " |
Well Said Creme
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mizzsandra00
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 11:31am |
Cream1970 wrote:
India, I totally agree. There is something broken and dysfunctional in the mind and spirit of a side chic. She can scream to the heavens about how much she loves herself but words are words. Actions tell the real story.
No, I don't owe the wife/girlfriend anything. But a person that respects themselves, will respect others, whether their mate does or not.
Yes, some men are dogs, but there are women that keep it moving, and there are women that are just as low and will be the bich in heat and lie down with him.
Just because he's serving sh*t doesn't mean you have to grab a spoon and gobble it down. Lol
It used to gas my head up when men in relationships would hit on me. Now, it's insulting. Because a committed man continuing to hit on me makes me wonder "What am I exuding that makes him think that I'm so desperate and pathetic that I would be comfortable with another woman's scraps? "
I'm so Blessed to get to the level of self love are respect for myself and others that I've gotten to. It took a little longer than I would've expected because as I was doing it, sadly I didn't feel bad. I just realized one day, " This isn't healthy. I'm worth so much more than this. " |
Cream in here dropping knowledge.....
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creole booty
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 11:36am |
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Exactly
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Wildfire
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 11:38am |
sbrownie84 wrote:
Exactly. But my best friend always seems to encounter evil scowls from women all the time. She is not a flirt or man stealing type but slot of women are VERY catty with her. I never understand why. |
She doesnt have to do anything to get this response. As long as she is attractive, she will always get scowls. Women are nasty like that. Biitches are nasty on the damn phone.
Edited by Wildfire - Apr 11 2014 at 11:40am
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 11:39am |
maysay1 wrote:
sbrownie84 wrote:
There are some gorgeous, stylish women that other women admire and look up to whereas there are women who are equally as stylish but other woman loathe... What determines this? |
How the woman sees herself.
Some women see any other woman as competition, regardless of whether she's a virgin or a "whore". There are women who hate their own daughters, mothers, sisters, and anyone else with a a vagina because of how they see themselves.
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God, yesss
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Wildfire
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 11:43am |
Cream1970 wrote:
It used to gas my head up when men in relationships would hit on me. Now, it's insulting. Because a committed man continuing to hit on me makes me wonder "What am I exuding that makes him think that I'm so desperate and pathetic that I would be comfortable with another woman's scraps? "
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I honestly dont think it has much to do so much with what youre exuding. Men look at a woman and see nut opportunity. They will always try. Doesnt matter if the woman is classy or desperate. Doesnt matter who the man is. The best of the best will always try to fvck.
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Majesty02
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 11:56am |
QUOTE=indiecat]The ones who disguise themselves as just friends, the needy ones, attention whores....[/QUOTE]
Exactly. I try to stay farrrrrrrrr awayyyyy from those type of females. I can't stand needy people (male or female) that always have to be the center of attention no matter what.  |
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 12:11pm |
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interesting thread
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melikey
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The women I've known who wouldn't mind dating a taken man never had a particular look. Quite the opposite. Haven't yall seen most men's side pieces? They are usually struggling and nowhere near the hot sex on a platter types.
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