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Cream1970
Elite Member
Joined: Feb 09 2009
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Points: 37285
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Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:19pm |
Some women just look like they'd do freaky shyt that that man's girl won't do. They don't have to look skanky, whorish or trifling, they just look like they REALLY love sex. Raunchy, freaky, circus sex. Men and women both pick up on that.
And sometimes, it takes a former sideline heaux to recognize a possible sideline heaux. I can relate. :-)
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india100
Platinum Member
Joined: Feb 19 2008
Location: in God's hand
Status: Offline
Points: 156058
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Posted: Apr 10 2014 at 11:38pm |
I never had a desire for a man married or in a relationship. When a man is willing to cheat with you on his wife , he will cheat on you after the first sex . I feel like it's sleeping with the wife . I don't want her purse without sounding vulgar . No thanks .
I can run my older self to the drug store with a baseball cap and a bad weave day and some man will try to get my number . Really suprise how many young men that try to hit on a woman my age ." Boy i have no idea how to play video games' lol . I need to learn for my daughter . I have a cousin that only dates married men . Lisa claims she enjoys the freedom to see the man on her terms , but i see the pain she goes through when he ends the affair . Like i told her . You are bascially sleeping with the wife also . JMO 
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Cream1970
Elite Member
Joined: Feb 09 2009
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Points: 37285
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 12:00am |
India, I totally agree. There is something broken and dysfunctional in the mind and spirit of a side chic. She can scream to the heavens about how much she loves herself but words are words. Actions tell the real story.
No, I don't owe the wife/girlfriend anything. But a person that respects themselves, will respect others, whether their mate does or not.
Yes, some men are dogs, but there are women that keep it moving, and there are women that are just as low and will be the bich in heat and lie down with him.
Just because he's serving sh*t doesn't mean you have to grab a spoon and gobble it down. Lol
It used to gas my head up when men in relationships would hit on me. Now, it's insulting. Because a committed man continuing to hit on me makes me wonder "What am I exuding that makes him think that I'm so desperate and pathetic that I would be comfortable with another woman's scraps? "
I'm so Blessed to get to the level of self love are respect for myself and others that I've gotten to. It took a little longer than I would've expected because as I was doing it, sadly I didn't feel bad. I just realized one day, " This isn't healthy. I'm worth so much more than this. "
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newdiva1
Elite Member
Joined: Dec 15 2006
Location: meh
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Points: 238782
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 12:01am |
BBpants wrote:
Is the saying how you get him is how you lose him always true? lol
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no.
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ms_wonderland
Elite Member
Joined: Apr 05 2009
Location: TTT
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Points: 310272
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 12:03am |
Ming wrote:
Lite Brite wrote:
Like I said, the ones with pale frosty lipstick
The ones jumping to make your man a plate before making their baby a bottle.
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You keep forgetting that glittery ass chest in a deep v neck
and wth is letting somebody fix their man a plate? |
 Here y'all go
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Cream1970
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Joined: Feb 09 2009
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 12:03am |
newdiva1 wrote:
BBpants wrote:
Is the saying how you get him is how you lose him always true? lol
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no.
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NJHairLuv
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Joined: Dec 14 2013
Location: Chanhassen, MN
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Points: 90404
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 12:08am |
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NJHairLuv
Senior Member
Joined: Dec 14 2013
Location: Chanhassen, MN
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Points: 90404
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 12:09am |
dont forget to mention the bish with the anklet (ankle bracelet)
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Lady ICE
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Joined: Jun 07 2007
Location: Gotham City
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Points: 278960
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 12:24am |
ShadyLady wrote:
I hate that stupid line of thinking.
Don't get me wrong, some women definitely pull that sh!t with ill intentions, but if all it takes is a low cut top or a short skirt to lure your mn, he probably shouldn't be your man anyway. | agreed
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thewonderfulwa
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Joined: May 19 2007
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Points: 65916
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Posted: Apr 11 2014 at 12:37am |
Some women just exude a strong sexual presence & confidence that attracts men doesn't mean they're trying to jump on your man meat there is a difference.
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