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Its easier physically, to take care of a child in your 20s than 40s. It just is. 

That said, i still dont see anything wrong with having your first child in your mid to late 30s. 

40s though.....why put yourself through the stress, if you can do it earlier?

pregnancy and caring for an infant is not a walk in the park (even in your 20s) . Whether you have strong support or not. You are the primary caregiver, and everything comes down to you where caring for that child is concerned. Everything in your life changes. 
I think it makes more sense to do it earlier.


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Why? Maybe you're more established and got more time to devote to the child. This is if u go through having ur own child or an infant. 40 isn't. That old at all...hell many were raised very well by grandparents but im not going that high. If a person is of that age and wants a child theyve had time to thonk of it and accept any added stress. If adopting u can get older children
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You young female heaux better stop heauxing in these streets so you can settle down and have kids the natural way before your 40s.Angry



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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

You young female heaux better stop heauxing in these streets so you can settle down and have kids the natural way before your 40s.Angry





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40 is old to be having first child imo. 
Not too old. But old. But that's just me.


If i had to choose between life not being perfect at 27 (perfect job, house, car, etc), and having a child, and life being perfect at 40 and having a child, I would go with 27. As long as Im healthy, mentally prepared, and in a good, stable job.


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Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

You young female heaux better stop heauxing in these streets so you can settle down and have kids the natural way before your 40s.Angry






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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

You young female heaux better stop heauxing in these streets so you can settle down and have kids the natural way before your 40s.Angry





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Most 20 year olds aint ready to do shyt but apply for food stamps and wic...chile please 
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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

40 is old to be having first child imo. 
Not too old. But old. But that's just me.


If i had to choose between life not being perfect at 27 (perfect job, house, car, etc), and having a child, and life being perfect at 40 and having a child, I would go with 27. As long as Im healthy, mentally prepared, and in a good, stable job.

This. 

Not to mention that the odds of getting pregnant at 40 are only 20% and by 45 the odds of getting pregnant are under 5. 

While the odds of pregnancy are decreasing, the odds of miscarriage, pregnancy complications and birth defects are increasing. 

Biology is real. 


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