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so this may not be as sordid as we love to make some things out to be.  She is probably trying to protect her employement just case the walking friend is a run and go tell dat kind of person. 
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Still not understanding the BHM spin on this but ummm idk.
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A friend of mine who is a teacher has never disclosed to the school she works for that she has a child. Her reason is it's none of their business. Her child is late teen though. 

I find it odd


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I know someone like that. She lost her children due to mental illness and claims she's childless so ppl dont questoon why her children do not live with her
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Printer_Ink Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 16 2013 at 8:24am
I think all the above are reasons she might lie about having kids.  I was thinking that she was denying her children because she didn't want them ... them later she resurrects them at her lesure etc. You know ... some womem try to hide their kids because of a man or something else quite selfish.
 
I think if I had to lie about not having kids for any of those reasons ... I just would have kept that lie going - period. I wouldn't have pics laying around or casually blurt out some story about my child .. if it was a secret. I mean don't we all have secrets tht we don't blurt out? Could be that she was just a bad liar though. Stern Smile
 
Now, after time goes by and we get close .. that's when I would have sat her down and told her the whole story etc because yes, there could be a valid reason to keep the children a secret - because yes, mental illness, trauma, a bad divorce, trying to get a job etc ... would all be valid reasons to keep that secret. I don't have kids ... but surely this sort of secret would cut the heart out of me.


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Okay...here is a quick semi-update (if anyone is interested) 

So my cousin also added that her walking partner has always shared the fact that she has a teenage (16) god-daughter who is currently pregnant. She is close friends with her 'god daughter's mother.  She said that her god-daughter kept the pregnancy a secret from her mother. She seems to have a close relationship with this lady b/c she gives her money for transportation and stuff.  

My cousin said this weekend while she was going walking with her partner (the woman in question) they met up with another lady who seemed to know my friends walking partner. The friend then asked, 'Where is the baby?" Then her walking partner said that 'the baby is at home.' AFter this friend left, my cousin's walking partner told her that her god-daughter had he baby.....

Not sure if this means anything; just throwing the story out there.


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I have no clue why your cousin isn't asking clarifying questions.  I have absolutely no clue.  It is not about cornering a person but getting a full understanding of the situation where it makes sense.  You weren't even privvy to the conversation and with you relaying it...it makes no sense whatsoever. 
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she's trying to be secretly nosy and using me to do her dirty work. haha! but u r right we are just speculting.
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So it isn't her child but just her god-daughter? She didn't lie?
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