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To all the Ladies I will keep you in my prayer' I know it must be hard some days are better than other.  But please stay strong and hang in there.
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Originally posted by supermodelsonya supermodelsonya wrote:

Originally posted by bellacnella bellacnella wrote:

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http://www.thefightlikeagirlclub.com/2011/05/sonyas-fight-like-a-girl-story-lupus/

For anyone interested, my story was featured on the Fight Like A Girl Club website!
 
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Hey there love!!!!!! In a wheelchair now...I switch it up with a cane every now and then. Breathing problems, kidney issues...but I'm hanging in there. Smile

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Well just know that I am praying for you.  Feel free to pm me if you ever wanna talk SmileSmile
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stay strong. and thank you for sharingHugHeart

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Again thanks everyone for your well wishes.Embarrassed
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Update: Off work for almost six months now. Still in a wheelchair but use my walker frequently. I'm working on some essays dealing with Lupus and my experiences with it. I hope everyone is doing well.
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BUMP! Please tell us how your docs found out you had lupus as in tedts done & meds you are now taking & how they are working...also thye swelling, anyone ever went a shoe size up?
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I lost a lot of weight and would have fevers that we're unexplained. My doctor tested me for many diseases and my lupus panel came back positive.

I take twenty four medications daily to live basically. I never went up a shoe size but when my feet swell, I wore flip flops in the summer. It stopped happening as my lupus has moved on to attacking my nervous system.
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Good luck to you, you're a trooper.

A few years ago, I started having the worst chest pains. I couldn't explain them. I started looking up that and a few other symptoms I had on Webmd and Lupus came up. I wasn't too sure what it was and looked into it.

The more research I did, the more and more I realized that this sounded just like me. It explained my arthritis pains, random bruising, and the red rash on my face. I've had all these problems my whole life but just attributed it to bad genes.

I haven't ever really been to a doctor other than things like strep and to get my shots. When I was about 4 or 5, my mom took me to the doctor for my constant daily migraines. They were so bad as a child I sometimes couldn't even get out of bed to go to school. But the doctor couldn't give me an answer, and I think that's really the moment I gave up on doctors.

As I got older, though, my migraines became less and less frequent. I didn't care to ask why. And when I started reading more and more about lupus, I read that exposure to sunlight could exacerbate the symptoms. And it hit me. When I was little, I played outside all day, every day. And as I got older, I stayed in more and more. And usually the only times I got a migraine was when I'd go outside all day.

I always thought my random bruising was because I was clumsy, even though I could never remember hitting things (and when I did, it took a heavy hit to actually cause a bruise on me). Puzzling, but I didn't question it too much.

And I always used to get sick. Once a month, sometimes. I never took medicine, and eventually I just got better. I got sick for sure when I went to the beach for vacation or something of the like. Again, I just thought bad genetics were to blame.

I would have never guessed what the culprit was. When I found out, I did almost too much research on the disease, joined a forum and talked to a bunch of people who also had lupus. Just to make sure. Because I don't have health insurance, and there's no way I could afford to see a doctor (or maybe even many doctors) over and over again just to get a diagnosis. And everyone had almost the exact same symptoms as me.

When I told my boyfriend at the time, he made fun of me for thinking I had lupus, and went to his friends joking about it. They'd all laugh at me and I didn't understand why. I don't ever complain about being sick, why would I just come out of nowhere with some random disease to get attention?

So I stopped telling people. I never mentioned it to anyone again. Sometimes when I'm really close to someone, I'll tell them about my symptoms. But I won't ever tell them the name of the disease. I won't tell them too much.

This whole thing has made me realize that I'm strong on my own, and other people don't need to know what I'm sure I have. They don't need to know what I'm going through. I know what it is and I can take care of myself, by myself. Maybe if things ever turn serious, I'll begin to open up. But having a mild case like I do, I don't need people to help me through it. :/

Now, I won't go out in summer without sunscreen, I own a parasol, completely changed my diet, I try to avoid extreme temperatures and for the rest, I just deal with it as it comes. Sometimes it gets hard. Sometimes I'm in a lot of pain. But I won't cry in front of anybody anymore. I won't let people see me limping when I get real bad pains. And I think more than anything, I tell myself that I'm normal, that I don't have anything wrong with me, that I'm just having a bad month. Try to make myself believe it.

When it starts to get bad, I'll consider going to see a doctor. Until then, it's more than bearable. It's emotionally tolling for me more than anything. My case isn't serious, but that could still change at the drop of a hat.

I think Lupus awareness needs to be raised. If I'd known what it was, I think I would have realized I had it a lot sooner. I could have tried seeking help before I turned 18 and lost my parent's health insurance. I would have learned how to take care of myself better.

And for those of you who have strange symptoms, even if you think it could be nothing, don't just keep going about your day. Look into it. If you have the means, see a doctor. You don't know, it could turn out to be something serious.

Thank you for this thread and letting others know what's really out there. A lot of the symptoms are easily missed, even by doctors. I can't even imagine what you must be going through, with your case as bad as it is. I'll keep you in my prayers.
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Thank you NattyDoll! A lot of symptoms that you had, I had as a child. There were times in my childhood where I couldnt' walk and would just fall to the ground. My father thought I was exaggerating but I wasn't. I tested negative for the Rheumatoid Factor (RF) at that time and nothing else was done about it. Then it just went away..until twenty three years later...
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