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He came over on his day off when we both were finished with class. It was a Wednesday. I was very nervous, he didn't have a condom so he bought one from the store (longest four minutes of my life while I waited for him to come back). It was painful, mostly uncomfortable..he went slow and held my hands while looking into my eyes the entire time. Very gentle and he listened to me and stopped when it hurt, didn't freak out about the blood (eww) & was very patient, more than i was . The condom broke, I had to get plan b, the two weeks following that were horrible...but it was still lovely. *sigh*     :)
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One of the worst days of my life because i was being a hot arse. My father was at work, my very strict mother went with a friend to get her hair done in a town about 17 miles away. My boyfriend at the time came over, and I had recently watched my first PICS. I was 16 almost 17 and was curious about the entire thing...i was one of the last of my friends who was still a virgin. i wasn't horney or anything, just curious.
 
Just when i asked him to to follow me to my room, my friend's younger sister came over ...she was a big girl, fast, chained smoked...but cute as a button.  her ass knew we were up to no good, and the good Lord tried to save me for this mistake, but I finally got a chance to give up the cooch and i was takING my chance. i told becky to get the hell out, grab the boyfriend by the arm, and we went to my bedroom.
 
No foreplay, very little kissing, nothing... i told the punk to put on a condom, i thought he had, but he didn't( UNUSED CONDOM LEFT IN THE BED) yeah, i was very dumb. The punk put the tip and maybe the middle of his penis in, it hurt, i screamed, pushed his arse up, and too late he was n utting. NOt even a full pump, BUT THIS NEGRO WAS NUTTING.  He later bragged to a friend that I had some good cooch...although that may be true, he was just plain dysfunctional.  
 
my period was late, the boy moved out of town, and i was scared as hell. Thank the Lord for 2nd chances, no baby, and no disease.
 
 
AWFULLLLLL EXPERIENCE!


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-I was 18 and a freshman
-it was in my dorm room
-my roommate acted like she left the room, but she was really just hiding on the floor
-He had a small penis. I know an average wang is around 5 inches, but his was smaller. So, so serious
-It was uncomfortable, but it didnt hurt (probably because of the above)
-The sex was turrible. The bad sex encounters I shared in that thread were with him. We only did it a few times before I grew tired of the wackness. 
-I didnt know him as well as I could have, but seeing as Im STD, pregnancy and heartbreak free, I dont regret my decision. 
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i was 20. i regret it. 
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Still waiting... I need to get the wack first time out the way
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Originally posted by fairyQueen092 fairyQueen092 wrote:

Still waiting... I need to get the wack first time out the way


Doesn't have to be whack.
I enjoyed my first time.

Let it be with some special and who thinks you're just as special .


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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by fairyQueen092 fairyQueen092 wrote:

Still waiting... I need to get the wack first time out the way


Doesn't have to be whack.
I enjoyed my first time.

Let it be with some special and who thinks you're just as special .


You're lucky, all I've heard were horror stories from my friends

I hope I can find someone like that..

Edited by fairyQueen092 - Dec 11 2012 at 12:04am
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HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE!!!

We were both virgins and had no clue what we were doing. I honestly think the only reason we even.did it is cuz he had older brothers who influenced him, and I was in puppy love.

To show you how dumb we were, we didn't even know what "female arousal" was. He touched me down there and instead of "wet", this fool asked me why I was OILY down there. Sad part is, my dumb ass didn't know any better so I was just embarrassed and trying to figure out why I had an oily pum-pum.

I remember feeling really weird the whole time like something was off, but I just chalked it up as nerves. Come to find out his creepy ass, grown ass brother was hiding in the adjoining bathroom watching us the whole damn time.

We were together off and on another 4-5 years and only had sex 3 more times . I thought I hated sex and never got the hype...then I got my first REAL piece of wood and realized what I was missing out on .

We talk every now and then, and he always brings up how he was my first, and you never forget your first, its never as good as your first time...

I don't have the heart to tell him that after I got my first real piece, cried from the pain, and saw blood that I don't even think he was ever actually IN me .
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Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

I had just gotten my hair done & he picked me up from the shop.
All I remember is extra Virgin olive oil and pain.


Sunny, WTF at the bolded ?!

I'mma leave this alone, but you don't even wanna know the scenarios that ran thru my head .
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15 with my first real boyfriend (ended up being my daughters Father) in my girlfriends bathroom.
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