Look, i got me a white man...?

BlackstarBlue wrote: -Shesus- wrote: BlackstarBlue wrote: -Shesus- wrote: from what I've heard from the interracial nigerians that are dating white boys, money is not the draw.  They are just happy to be with someone who is HAPPY to be with them.  They have been mistreated, passed over, ignored  & ridiculed by their own black men.  If they found one that will treat them right & commit, why not?   If nobody is checking for you on side A, cross over to side B. ......or stay alone LIES. Nigerian girls are not hurting for partners babe, I didn't say that at all Are they facially challenged? Nigerian men are low on the coon scale. Do they marry white women,of course s but  They marry Nigerian women, West Indian women black women as a whole. Except for the ones needing papers

Nigerian men aren't high on the "coon scale" but they aren't everywhere. I have dated 2. One moved to LA to pursue acting, and the other wasn't ready for marriage. Some people go back to Nigeria to find a spouse, but the women there are looking for the good ones. They want a come up too. Not someone rich, but someone capable of being stable. I see both points, but it isn't really that hard and fast. Nigerian men are wonderful though. My uncles are very good to their wives. My cousin just finished med school and her SO is in med school too. I see a lot of really positive Nigerian men.

afrokock wrote: i see loads of naija men of good breeding and not so good breeding with white women in london

Word?As long as they are happy, I don't judge. I know some UK Naija guys that come to the US looking for wives.When I was in Nigeria everyone was really unhappy with my dating choice. They said IR dating was ok for men, because women are more likely to retain the culture (visit Nigeria, cook the food, etc). They said that women that marry out are more likely to become lost (i.e. never return to their homeland). This was an open double standard.

Edited by Limalady - Mar 23 2013 at 4:51am

Yes and no. Some are showing off but more in the sense of "look despite what black men will tell you....we are datable?"

*a didn't read thread post*

Limalady wrote: afrokock wrote: i dont know, imo i think women in ir are less dominant and less likely to retain culture but thats just conjecture tbh I can see this. I am less dominant. I still try to retain my culture though.

Limalady wrote: BlackstarBlue wrote: -Shesus- wrote: BlackstarBlue wrote: -Shesus- wrote: from what I've heard from the interracial nigerians that are dating white boys, money is not the draw.  They are just happy to be with someone who is HAPPY to be with them.  They have been mistreated, passed over, ignored  & ridiculed by their own black men.  If they found one that will treat them right & commit, why not?   If nobody is checking for you on side A, cross over to side B. ......or stay alone LIES. Nigerian girls are not hurting for partners babe, I didn't say that at all Are they facially challenged? Nigerian men are low on the coon scale. Do they marry white women,of course s but  They marry Nigerian women, West Indian women black women as a whole. Except for the ones needing papers Nigerian men aren't high on the "coon scale" but they aren't everywhere. I have dated 2. One moved to LA to pursue acting, and the other wasn't ready for marriage. Some people go back to Nigeria to find a spouse, but the women there are looking for the good ones. They want a come up too. Not someone rich, but someone capable of being stable. I see both points, but it isn't really that hard and fast. Nigerian men are wonderful though. My uncles are very good to their wives. My cousin just finished med school and her SO is in med school too. I see a lot of really positive Nigerian men.

Yo Lima That ahs nothing to do with my post! I'm just answering shesus who claims that Nigerian women are being abused and rejected thats why they are dating IR. Um no its a choice. Black women are not being driven into the arms of white men because of  black men. Its a choice and so what?

AK where did i say Nigerian men don't date white? Of course they do but on the coon Richter scale they are about a 4 ( excluding papers)