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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

This guy that was in a class with me last year tried to holla. Fast forward 3 months later and I see this same guy at my paternal grandma's funeral with my cousin. Before the funeral it had been about 10 years since I have seen or spoken to this cousin. She told me she and dude have been together for a few years. He looked super uncomfy and guilty when he saw me. But I didn't feel like it was the time or place to call him out. Now me and my cuz are getting really tight and I wonder if I should bring it up. I don't know how she is gonna react. And she is pregnant by dude. I told my brother and he said just leave it alone.
 
Yes, please listen to your brother.  That can get real ugly, real fast.


Yeah I know but I think he is a dog and I wish she would do better but I don't want to upset her.


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I aint saying sh*t unless it's a close friend or family
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I lost a good friend because I told her I caught her man with a YT woman. 
He was dating a woman who lived on my block and he knew I had seen him with this woman so he told my friend that I had been trying to "get at him".
When I finally told my gurl about her man she told me she expected me to try to cause trouble in her relationship because she already knew I wanted her man.

Within two months he left his lady (my ex-friend) for his new woman and moved in with his new find. 
Me and my ex-friend never really reconnected because I can't get over her thinking I was the type who would underplay her for a bum niqqa. I had known this girl for 20yrs, we grew up together.


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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

I let a girl who I never met know her dude was cheating her when he was trying to holla at me. Sh!t just wasnt adding up with his story....so after a lil research i found the lie. Talked to him for the next 2 days  to get some dets and  sealed it with multiple peen pic he sent me. sent it all off to her on FB...was beautiful... he hit me up 2 days later talking about i ruined his life.....I lol'd. The sun shined bright on that grand day.


weird. this is a chapter from my life book as well. they ended in divorce.
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I would not interfere.  Instead I have a dry shoulder to offer when the proverbial sh*t hits the fan and they need a temporary wailing wall.
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If it's an associate, neighbor, co-worker, etc... I'm minding my biz.

But BAY-BAY...

Let it be one of my ridahs, or close family member?! Nicca, I will snitch on you in your face. Walk up to you and side chick, snap a pic, and say " So, you telling ___________, or you need me to make that call for you?"

What kinda friend would I be if I let someone dog out, mistreat, and possibly endanger my friend? HELL NAW!

And I'm automatically telling on your ass if you do some grimy mess like inviting your side chick out with me. You won't have my ass looking disloyal.

Any " friend" of mine who sits around twiddling her thumbs while I'm getting played would get a foot to the ass.
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Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

I tell when it involves me or anyone I care about.  Dont involve me in your lies.

this is the problem. 
like you introduced me to your gf. 
we got cool. hung out a few times, text once a week etc but yesterday you bring another bish to dinner and now you're involving me in this sh*t. 

then my homie who's at dinner with us was like "man that girl been ran through by the whole Miami"

i want to hint at protection at the very least 



Who is your friend.....seems like he is.......mind yo bidness....you know her thru him....
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Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

If it's an associate, neighbor, co-worker, etc... I'm minding my biz.

But BAY-BAY...

Let it be one of my ridahs, or close family member?! Nicca, I will snitch on you in your face. Walk up to you and side chick, snap a pic, and say " So, you telling ___________, or you need me to make that call for you?"

What kinda friend would I be if I let someone dog out, mistreat, and possibly endanger my friend? HELL NAW!

And I'm automatically telling on your ass if you do some grimy mess like inviting your side chick out with me. You won't have my ass looking disloyal.

Any " friend" of mine who sits around twiddling her thumbs while I'm getting played would get a foot to the ass.

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Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

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I involve myself in these matters.
I don't care if you want to know or not.
It would make me feel so dirty knowing and not knowing
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