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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 21 2013 at 2:08pm
its best to tell anonymously!  e-mail the info from a fake acc. sometimes the person you tell sometimes gets mad at you because deep down they are ashamed and embarrassed. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 21 2013 at 2:16pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by honeydrop honeydrop wrote:

..... you don't have to explain why you went to the mall shopping with her/ him and whatching them buy all that stuff for their cheating spouse. jmo


I agree Honey.

and I've never understood the must have proof thing. I'd want to be told  even if you aren't sure; even if the car just looked like his lol.

Give me the info, and I'll figure it out.
 
I understand it. I told my cousin years ago that her boyfriend was cheating and he flipped it to say that my family never liked him bc he just got out of prison. I present evidence so you know it doesn't have anything to do with what I think or how I feel, it's 100% about whats in front of you and you can do with it whatever you want.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 21 2013 at 2:54pm
Am,  I know that I'm weird on that. I agree that you can't just tell somebody you thought you saw their s/o somewhere. But that's how I've always felt about it.  I wouldn't apply that to other people, that's just me. lol.

Also it doesn't even have to be a close friend to tell me. Like I said, give me the info and let me go from there. The clerk at Target can tell me she saw him come in with some floozy last Friday, and I'd want to hear it. I'll figure out if it was his cousin, niece or the homeless woman he decided to take shopping (he's actually done that before lol). Or an actual floozy


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 21 2013 at 2:56pm
eta: we'd laugh about it later (me and hub)
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 21 2013 at 3:00pm
download one of em free texting apps and let her know.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 21 2013 at 3:11pm
TMI lol 

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 21 2013 at 3:13pm
well dam.
we can't help without some I.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 21 2013 at 3:14pm
j/k Sunshine. I understand.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 21 2013 at 3:15pm
now that i'm on a computer i can also share this...i told someone very close to me that her very long term boyfriend was trying to get with me...dck pix and all....i've never been so nervous to tell someone something.  i had to drink first.  anyway, letting her know would also jeopardize a $ situation but i put her before that, obviously.  in the end, i lost out on the biz + she told him and stayed with him.  it was a lose/lose for me.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 21 2013 at 3:22pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

now that i'm on a computer i can also share this...i told someone very close to me that her very long term boyfriend was trying to get with me...dck pix and all....i've never been so nervous to tell someone something.  i had to drink first.  anyway, letting her know would also jeopardize a $ situation but i put her before that, obviously.  in the end, i lost out on the biz + she told him and stayed with him.  it was a lose/lose for me.
 
That is exactly what happened to me, minus the dck pix. On top of that, the chick has been hating on me for years because of it.


Edited by JoliePoufiasse - Oct 21 2013 at 3:24pm
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