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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote nitabug Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 13 2015 at 12:02pm
I remember I believed this post and then he told me that he liked me for a long time and didn't know if I liked him. 

A nicca from a site called "black girls are easy" couldn't blog to me about the benefits of drinking water. 
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Quote Think about that, you hold a man down emotionally and then help him financially, and now he’s in love with another woman who is on the payroll that you are payrolling. She told me this: “I’ve asked God to destroy his life like he’s destroyed mine.” That’s deep. It’s also internally toxic. God isn’t a hitman and there is nothing you can do besides learn the lesson that was put in place for you to learn. .....No one wants to talk about lessons and self-responsibility, because like all relationship problems, it’s not about the person who hurt you, it’s about you learning from that person so you can grow into a Spartan that doesn’t need to rely on the fantasy of fair to conquer life. That’s not fair, is the battle cry of losers. Nevertheless, if you’re hell bent on this “feel my pain” nonsense then let’s go through all the ways you can get revenge on your Ex.



i got it from the link below, which is for women who want to get a revenge on their exes, but it teaches them that you can't hurt someone who was never or no longer is invested in them:

http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2015/07/how-to-get-revenge-on-your-ex.html


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there are two wheels of power:

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And there's the Wheel of Power and Control, to learn to recognize abuse....abuse isn't only physical and verbal. 
You can be emotionally and psychologically abused by being controlled, manipulated and isolated from friends and family:

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found this and thought it could help somebody who can't make the distinction between flattery and love:




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