Letting female fam & friends live w/ u & your man

jonesable wrote: Gkisses wrote: Sometimes the topics here make me feel like im just to optimistic when it comes to ppl and life in general Uh uh I remember getting blasted from an older lady from my church. I was 17 I came by after church thinking she had made it home to get an Easter program roster together and to bring by some things for her. She had a screen covered porch her husband came out to greet me and I asked if she had made it home yet he said she was on her way and to just wait awhile .we just small talked on the porch and she pulled up maybe 5 minutes later. She cursed me and called me a hussy for sitting up with her husband ( we were standing on the porch).she really laid into me .i just said I'm sorry mam and told her why I came. She told me she thinks I'm a good girl but I don't need to do that to the wrong person. Then she called my mother and my aunts to spread the news. I felt so hurt bc I felt like I had brought shame to my family .i didn't do anything but stand and wait for 3 minutes on the porch. Lesson learned

so there are problems in magic Negro land

EPITOME wrote: jonesable wrote: Gkisses wrote: Sometimes the topics here make me feel like im just to optimistic when it comes to ppl and life in general Uh uh I remember getting blasted from an older lady from my church. I was 17 I came by after church thinking she had made it home to get an Easter program roster together and to bring by some things for her. She had a screen covered porch her husband came out to greet me and I asked if she had made it home yet he said she was on her way and to just wait awhile .we just small talked on the porch and she pulled up maybe 5 minutes later. She cursed me and called me a hussy for sitting up with her husband ( we were standing on the porch).she really laid into me .i just said I'm sorry mam and told her why I came. She told me she thinks I'm a good girl but I don't need to do that to the wrong person. Then she called my mother and my aunts to spread the news. I felt so hurt bc I felt like I had brought shame to my family .i didn't do anything but stand and wait for 3 minutes on the porch. Lesson learned Sound like Grandmas Husband was a Ho and You were the least of her worries... so there are problems in magic Negro land

EPITOME wrote: jonesable wrote: Gkisses wrote: Sometimes the topics here make me feel like im just to optimistic when it comes to ppl and life in general Uh uh I remember getting blasted from an older lady from my church. I was 17 I came by after church thinking she had made it home to get an Easter program roster together and to bring by some things for her. She had a screen covered porch her husband came out to greet me and I asked if she had made it home yet he said she was on her way and to just wait awhile .we just small talked on the porch and she pulled up maybe 5 minutes later. She cursed me and called me a hussy for sitting up with her husband ( we were standing on the porch).she really laid into me .i just said I'm sorry mam and told her why I came. She told me she thinks I'm a good girl but I don't need to do that to the wrong person. Then she called my mother and my aunts to spread the news. I felt so hurt bc I felt like I had brought shame to my family .i didn't do anything but stand and wait for 3 minutes on the porch. Lesson learned so there are problems in magic Negro land

Many and I still luh my town:)

Jones you shoulda fought that old hoe for charging you up like that!

But i would let my sisters and one friend. Another friend I have a feeling would f*ck my man.

I also probably wouldnt feel comfortable staying with a friend and her man cause for some reason my friends always tell me what comments their men make about my appearance..so even though they know deep down I would never mess with their man..I think the living situation could be slightly uncomfortable and there might be some brief moments of delusional thinking on her part..as would be expected of anyone in this situation

I don't think I could knowingly leave a loved one homeless, so I'd let women really closed to me stay.

Plus, my friends and man all know I'm crazy. I don't think they would wanna risk their well-being for a nut like that.

There is one female friend I love, but I would say hell no. She recently confided that she's slept behind 2 of her friends before and she has no remorse. My man shouldn't say yes, but I don't trust that ho not to offer.

We can chill and shop, but I will not be giving her ass a golden ticket to my boo's wood.