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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Sometimes the topics here make me feel like im just to optimistic when it comes to ppl and life in generalCryLOL




Uh uh
I remember getting blasted from an older lady from my church.
I was 17 I came by after church thinking she had made it home to get an Easter program roster together and to bring by some things for her.
She had a screen covered porch her husband came out to greet me and I asked if she had made it home yet he said she was on her way and to just wait awhile .we just small talked on the porch and she pulled up maybe 5 minutes later.
She cursed me and called me a hussy for sitting up with her husband ( we were standing on the porch).she really laid into me .i just said I'm sorry mam and told her why I came. She told me she thinks I'm a good girl but I don't need to do that to the wrong person.

Then she called my mother and my aunts to spread the news.
I felt so hurt bc I felt like I had brought shame to my family .i didn't do anything but stand and wait for 3 minutes on the porch.

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so there are problems in magic Negro land
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Man, if I trust my female family/friend, I would let them sleepover at my house. And I would like to make it known that I just don't trust everyone to kick it at my place. This person has to be someone with a good record of being honest loyal, and goodhearted. So that when hubby ever tries to make any kind of advances to her, she will not hesitate to tell me. And I won't have any reason to question her for what she says. Then I will question hubby and handle him accordingly (which means he's going to die)
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Sometimes the topics here make me feel like im just to optimistic when it comes to ppl and life in generalCryLOL




Uh uh
I remember getting blasted from an older lady from my church.
I was 17 I came by after church thinking she had made it home to get an Easter program roster together and to bring by some things for her.
She had a screen covered porch her husband came out to greet me and I asked if she had made it home yet he said she was on her way and to just wait awhile .we just small talked on the porch and she pulled up maybe 5 minutes later.
She cursed me and called me a hussy for sitting up with her husband ( we were standing on the porch).she really laid into me .i just said I'm sorry mam and told her why I came. She told me she thinks I'm a good girl but I don't need to do that to the wrong person.

Then she called my mother and my aunts to spread the news.
I felt so hurt bc I felt like I had brought shame to my family .i didn't do anything but stand and wait for 3 minutes on the porch.

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Sound like Grandmas Husband was a Ho and You were the least of her worries...


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Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:

man i went over to my potna's house to chill one day in the afternoon and i see this fine ass chick in some booty shorts on his couch. he was at home alone with this woman. we go outside and first thing i asked who she was and he said its his brother in laws ex-wife. she didn't have anywhere to go and was going to be staying with them for a week. my next question, you fcked, didn't you...he looked me dead in my eye and told he did.

i was surprised his wife agreed to let a certified dimepiece stay in her home, let alone would leave her alone with her husband.
 
 
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I don't know why would someone put themselves in this situation where you may have to choose who you believe him or her when sh*t hits the fan and you did not see or walk in on it first hand.  The female in the above story has amunition to make him homeless too.  Why give random people that is living in your home that much damn focking power?
 
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Sometimes the topics here make me feel like im just to optimistic when it comes to ppl and life in generalCryLOL




Uh uh
I remember getting blasted from an older lady from my church.
I was 17 I came by after church thinking she had made it home to get an Easter program roster together and to bring by some things for her.
She had a screen covered porch her husband came out to greet me and I asked if she had made it home yet he said she was on her way and to just wait awhile .we just small talked on the porch and she pulled up maybe 5 minutes later.
She cursed me and called me a hussy for sitting up with her husband ( we were standing on the porch).she really laid into me .i just said I'm sorry mam and told her why I came. She told me she thinks I'm a good girl but I don't need to do that to the wrong person.

Then she called my mother and my aunts to spread the news.
I felt so hurt bc I felt like I had brought shame to my family .i didn't do anything but stand and wait for 3 minutes on the porch.

Lesson learned



so there are problems in magic Negro land


Many and I still luh my town:)
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I don't live with my fiance so no. He wouldn't be okay with it either.

In the future, sure, if they don't have any other options.
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Jones you shoulda fought that old hoe for charging you up like that!

But i would let my sisters and one friend. Another friend I have a feeling would f*ck my man.

I also probably wouldnt feel comfortable staying with a friend and her man cause for some reason my friends always tell me what comments their men make about my appearance..so even though they know deep down I would never mess with their man..I think the living situation could be slightly uncomfortable and there might be some brief moments of delusional thinking on her part..as would be expected of anyone in this situation
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Lmao , she was live on that porch too LB.

What they say about you? is it something like " damn yo beige friend got a big ole stupid booty"?

Edited by jonesable - Jan 22 2013 at 9:19pm
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I don't think I could knowingly leave a loved one homeless, so I'd let women really closed to me stay.

Plus, my friends and man all know I'm crazy. I don't think they would wanna risk their well-being for a nut like that.

There is one female friend I love, but I would say hell no. She recently confided that she's slept behind 2 of her friends before and she has no remorse. My man shouldn't say yes, but I don't trust that ho not to offer.

We can chill and shop, but I will not be giving her ass a golden ticket to my boo's wood.
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This situation went all the way south on snapped
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