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    Posted: Nov 02 2011 at 7:57pm
By T. D. Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The bible said that, they came out from us
that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.


And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just
means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead..

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you
something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye.. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!


If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong
to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!


If you are holding on to past hurts and pains .......


LET IT GO!!!


If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth.....


LET IT GO!!!


If someone has angered you.


LET IT GO!!!


If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge.....


LET IT GO!!!


If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction... ...


LET IT GO!!!


If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents


LET IT GO!!!


If you! u have a bad attitude.... ...


LET IT GO!!!


If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......


LET IT GO!!!


If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take
you to a new level in Him........

LET IT GO!!!


If you are struggling with the healing of a broken
relationship. ....

LET IT GO!!!


If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try
to help themselves.. ...

LET IT GO!!!


If you're feeling depressed and stressed .............


LET IT GO!!!


If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself and God is saying 'take your hands off of it,' then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!

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Amen! Clap
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Amen!!!! I need guidance in this area, so this definitely helps.
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Originally posted by cutescorpio cutescorpio wrote:


The bible said that, they came out from us
that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.


Loved it!

I will add this: we came to this world with nothing, and we'll leave with nothing, regardless of how much money we have in the bank or how many kids we had, we're still leaving without taking anything, so that's why "they were not for us".
So let go of thoughts of what you think it is best for someone else and let them do what they want! That's their path!
Quit calling your ex! He isn't yours, and you aren't his! Focus on what really matters!
Let go of anything that holds you down, causes pain, anger, distress, and start living with GodStar
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote SunshineDiva Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 09 2014 at 9:31pm
this is definitely movingSmile i have "talked" many people into staying in my life which only lead to them hurting me more than before. But, what do you do when you are left with no one all alone?
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It's better to be alone than to be in bad company. When you keep insisting in keeping certain people in your life even though they hurt you before and continue to hurt you, it is because you are hoping that one day they will be nicer to you, but that isn't happening because they don't care.
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slowly but surly im getting that into my head but some days i just craze that love and human interaction that is nonexistent in my life right now
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You need to seek love from God, not from people.
That will get rid of craving be around people who are hurtful.


Edited by sexyandfamous - May 09 2014 at 11:14pm
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thank you
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Easier said than done. Past hurts make you, and I don't mean that "makes you stronger bs" you still remember it, dwell it, and live that shyt everyday. Please let it go *sucks teeth*, would've been better if events never took place! Ugh, in a few days I'll be better and back to communicatin with God, but mi points of views are still factual to me..
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