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Watermelon man.
Out of respect for you?
Let that man see his son.
He shouldn't have let you interfere with that.
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how long have you two been together? how long were he and the babymomma together? 
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Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

No he wants to pay. She told him child care was $600. So he wants to continue paying $600. He is paying 1/2 for child care and the rest for other expenses.


so they never had a court order, just a tacit understanding? why did she suddenly stop letting him see his child? what changed in their relationship? is she mad he is dating you? how old is the child? how long have they had this agreement? how does he usually give her payment? how often did he used to see the child?


No court order they just had verbal agreement between each other. Out of respect for me I asked him to stop going over her house to see him. I have a son too I thought we could do things together. This seems to be problem. I was just trying to see what she could do in order to get 17% + childcare and what he could do to counter that. We live in ny n it's expensive.
If I'm reading this right, good luck to his son because he's going to need it.
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Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

No he wants to pay. She told him child care was $600. So he wants to continue paying $600. He is paying 1/2 for child care and the rest for other expenses.


so they never had a court order, just a tacit understanding? why did she suddenly stop letting him see his child? what changed in their relationship? is she mad he is dating you? how old is the child? how long have they had this agreement? how does he usually give her payment? how often did he used to see the child?


No court order they just had verbal agreement between each other. Out of respect for me I asked him to stop going over her house to see him. I have a son too I thought we could do things together. This seems to be problem. I was just trying to see what she could do in order to get 17% + childcare and what he could do to counter that. We live in ny n it's expensive.

Is it his son too, or your son by another man?
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No he isn't father of my son. We were dating for 3mths hit it off n have neem together officially as a couple for 7mths. I think it's crazy that she wants him to come over her house all the time.
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His son is 3
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Ooooh....she tryna ?
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she might not trust him with the boy out of her sight. 
she does not have the right to supervise their visitation
but she is a mother and mothers are often overprotective
she might not like where he lives, might not want the kid around his friends, there may be more reasons than that

or she very well might have feelings for him and wants the chance to see him and be with him. which is a risk you run with dealing with a man w/kids.

tbh--you're the new girl ruining the system and she doesn't like it.

he should go to court if it comes to that but i'd probably be best if they worked it out. if they were civil before they should still be able to be.

did you tell him to withhold child support?


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This is just classic.
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This nicca stopped seeing his child cuz you didn't want him going over there and he agreed to it?

It's a special place in hell for both of y'all. I hope the judge rakes y'all over the coals.

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