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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 22 2012 at 12:46am
Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

No he wants to pay. She told him child care was $600. So he wants to continue paying $600. He is paying 1/2 for child care and the rest for other expenses.

How much does he make?
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Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

No he wants to pay. She told him child care was $600. So he wants to continue paying $600. He is paying 1/2 for child care and the rest for other expenses.
Your boyfriend need to go to court! So that can be in writing cause the girl can say that he was not pay.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 22 2012 at 12:46am
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

There's one way he could get out of paying.
Well...there are a few ways.


How?
Unless he lay the pipe on baby mama and she forgives it he gon pay arrears.
And if she receives TANF I think she can't even drop it.

He owes that , there can be readjustments later on but that has nothing to do with the prior order.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 22 2012 at 12:47am
Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

They never went to court before. He wants to see his son but doesn't want o deal with her. She can be unpleasant ALL the time.


The only way to accomplish that is to go to court...no other way around it..
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 22 2012 at 12:48am
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

There's one way he could get out of paying.
Well...there are a few ways.


How?
Unless he lay the pipe on baby mama and she forgives it he gon pay arrears.
And if she receives TANF I think she can't even drop it.

He owes that , there can be readjustments later on but that has nothing to do with the prior order.

Think outside the box.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 22 2012 at 12:48am
Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

No he wants to pay. She told him child care was $600. So he wants to continue paying $600. He is paying 1/2 for child care and the rest for other expenses.

so they never had a court order, just a tacit understanding? why did she suddenly stop letting him see his child? what changed in their relationship? is she mad he is dating you? how old is the child? how long have they had this agreement? how does he usually give her payment? how often did he used to see the child?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 22 2012 at 12:49am
Oh it wasn't a court order.

If he know he got a difficult baby mama then he should have been the first to go to court.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 22 2012 at 12:53am
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

No he wants to pay. She told him child care was $600. So he wants to continue paying $600. He is paying 1/2 for child care and the rest for other expenses.


so they never had a court order, just a tacit understanding? why did she suddenly stop letting him see his child? what changed in their relationship? is she mad he is dating you? how old is the child? how long have they had this agreement? how does he usually give her payment? how often did he used to see the child?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 22 2012 at 12:54am
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

No he wants to pay. She told him child care was $600. So he wants to continue paying $600. He is paying 1/2 for child care and the rest for other expenses.


so they never had a court order, just a tacit understanding? why did she suddenly stop letting him see his child? what changed in their relationship? is she mad he is dating you? how old is the child? how long have they had this agreement? how does he usually give her payment? how often did he used to see the child?


No court order they just had verbal agreement between each other. Out of respect for me I asked him to stop going over her house to see him. I have a son too I thought we could do things together. This seems to be problem. I was just trying to see what she could do in order to get 17% + childcare and what he could do to counter that. We live in ny n it's expensive.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 22 2012 at 12:55am
Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by watermelon watermelon wrote:

No he wants to pay. She told him child care was $600. So he wants to continue paying $600. He is paying 1/2 for child care and the rest for other expenses.


so they never had a court order, just a tacit understanding? why did she suddenly stop letting him see his child? what changed in their relationship? is she mad he is dating you? how old is the child? how long have they had this agreement? how does he usually give her payment? how often did he used to see the child?


No court order they just had verbal agreement between each other. Out of respect for me I asked him to stop going over her house to see him. I have a son too I thought we could do things together. This seems to be problem. I was just trying to see what she could do in order to get 17% + childcare and what he could do to counter that. We live in ny n it's expensive.
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