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This is an epidemic. Simply tell him what you want.  When I'm hit with the lazy sh*t, I simply say "I'm used to doing X" or "I'd prefer to do Y" or you can just straight out be like "You aint layin up in my house, I could do that by my damn self, but you can take me Z" LOL however you choose to do it but get your point across in a cute way. Let men know that they aint gonna be sitting around your house getting sex for no reason.  Make him court you and take you places and entertain you. If he cant rise to the occasion then let him be some other bitch problem.  I used to put up with that lazy ish and then wondered why I was never satisfied in relationships and why I would feel taken advantage of.  Ideally, he should be impressing you from jump and not even try you like that....
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He doesn't like you he's just banging you.. If you never go out...... 
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Women don't realize they are the ones who set this trap...

   I don't even allow men I date into my house until we are on the verge of getting exclusive...I dont go to his house either...


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Men only get away with what you allow them to. 
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Yeah, if you were someone he was really into he would actually WANT to take you places and woo you. That's ok. Don't take it personal. Just dump his sorry azz and keep it moving. No big deal.
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I used to put up with this crap. Now it's a requirement to keep me entertained. I hate when men try to impress me then get comfortable and change...NOPE.  Smile My current boo won't be coming over until he's mine or pays my rent...whichever comes first.

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Originally posted by Anah Anah wrote:

^^^Yeah I get that vibe too TBH Ouch

Even the laziest and shyest men will put on when they are trying to impress

Hes not trying to impress b/c he doesn't feel he needs to. He just wants some effortless cut, don't give it to him.

You shouldn't have to educate a man on how to do the BASICS, and this is only the beginning Confused tell him kick rocks. Kittys siggy is dead on for this topic



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He's taking SOME ONE on "dates", believe that.
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