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    Posted: Oct 06 2012 at 9:05pm
So it seems like the last few guys I've "dated" are just lazy. I thought that actually dating a woman meant going out to dinner, movies, the fair, the circus, hell ANYWHERE.....

But with these men I've run into lately, more particularly the one I'm "seeing" now, they just don't want to do any of that. It's not about the money, hell we could do free activities (the point is let's go OUT) but he just wants to come over and sit up at my place. I don't get it....Coming over and hanging at my place is NOT gonna get you in my drawers....at least court me and you might get somewhere. LOL

I used to do little stuff like buying him random things he likes when I'm out or cooking him dinner...but that gets old quick when it's just one-sided and the only thing you wanna do is come over and sit around my house.


Is this the new norm in the dating world now? Fill me in....LOL
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Why don't you give him suggestions on where you would like to go?  Maybe he's just clueless (alot of men are IMO)! LOL

I'm married, but we still "date" and I usually have to put the planning most times...it is what it is.
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Heyyyy Tbaby!

I do suggest places and then he'll say okay but then we never go. And then I don't wanna keep bringing it up cause then it's like I'm nagging or begging someone to do something with me which to me is NOT HOT!!! LOL

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Then stop letting him come over and sit around. Problem solved LOL

Tell him to meet you at places instead.
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Then stop letting him come over and sit around. Problem solved LOL

Tell him to meet you at places instead.


I know, I know...Cry
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it sounds like he lays it on you well

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Stop letting the nicca come over. Problem solved.
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He's obviously not interested in 'dating' you.
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^^^Yeah I get that vibe too TBH Ouch

Even the laziest and shyest men will put on when they are trying to impress

Hes not trying to impress b/c he doesn't feel he needs to. He just wants some effortless cut, don't give it to him.

You shouldn't have to educate a man on how to do the BASICS, and this is only the beginning Confused tell him kick rocks. Kittys siggy is dead on for this topic


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^^draw up his walking papers! Life is too short to be wasting minutes on people who are unmotivated and lazy!!
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