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OMG! MCELWEEWIFE IS HERE! IVE BEEN WAITING HOURS FOR YOU TO RETURN!!!!
I sound like an obsessed fan. How is my child? Will you show pics? Were you able to walk the next day?
And i just want to say that the details of the birth were super descriptive, but very helpful. With that said, i will only be using this vajayjay for recreation, not procreation.
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Originally posted by mcelweewife mcelweewife wrote:

Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Hezekiah: "YAH strengthens"Approve
 
Congrats! This thread was so inspirational and exciting!!!


Yes this definition sealed the deal for us even though we decided on this hypothetical name for a son before we got married!

Yesterday was one of the most beautifully horrifying days of my life. After I dilated to 7 centimeters stuff got real. The pressure in my bladder was unbearable by that point. I thought I had to pee but I didn't.
it took THREE hours  to get to eight centimeters. By this time it was 5:30 pm.
My midwife offered to break my water which I agreed to. This is when I feel labor began. I started having extremely intense contraction with an unbearable urge to push. I basically had a 7 lb turd lodged in my rectum and I couldn't run. That is a terrifying place to be. At this point I was laboring in the water.

 My husband informed me this morning  that I choked him for the better part of 45 minutes while I pushed with each contraction. He was behind me in the birthing pool and I had my arms up over my head clasped around his neck. Apparently I shoved my head into his throat with every contraction.
I remember that , but it never occurred to me to care in that moment how he felt, I was just trying to survive. The final 5 contractions were pivotal to me. The third to last push felt like my clitoris ripped in half. Ring of fire my butt--it felt more like someone pour acid on my clitoris.
I felt this tearing continue as I pushed with the 4th and final contraction. Once I pushed his body out I felt like a new person.
THEN I had to push out the placenta. I thought that was the easy part.
It hurt. I was so frustrated I didn't even look at my child for the 1st few minutes. Then they put him on my chest for skin to skin contact and to nurse. I cried like a fool and did my husband. He latched right on and begin to nurse.  After 20 minutes I felt like my nipples had been scalded with boiling water. Once everything got cleaned up, I really looked at my baby and fell in love.


This little dude is a huge blessing and I am looking forward to the journey of parenthood!!!

That being said, NEVER again!!!! lol.
 
Congrats! PartyPartyPartyPartyPartyParty
 
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Thank you. I think that just made me decide not to have kids.
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Congrats! I've been peeking in on your progress.
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lmao at everyone chickening out of child birthLOL
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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Thank you. I think that just made me decide not to have kids.

i just told my husband this....he is very mad at me. Sleepy
this sh*t sounds horrific and not pleasant.

..i mean...congrats!
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Forgot to post pic. Here is my little angry bird;

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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Thank you. I think that just made me decide not to have kids without drugs
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Thank you all for your prayers, support, humor and advice. Some of these posts had me ROLLIN!!!!!!!
I will answer quetions shortly
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