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 Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 9:09pm |
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Hezekiah: "YAH strengthens"
Congrats! This thread was so inspirational and exciting!!! |
Yes this definition sealed the deal for us even though we decided on this hypothetical name for a son before we got married!
Yesterday was one of the most beautifully horrifying days of my life. After I dilated to 7 centimeters stuff got real. The pressure in my bladder was unbearable by that point. I thought I had to pee but I didn't.
it took THREE hours to get to eight centimeters. By this time it was 5:30 pm.
My midwife offered to break my water which I agreed to. This is when I feel labor began. I started having extremely intense contraction with an unbearable urge to push. I basically had a 7 lb turd lodged in my rectum and I couldn't run. That is a terrifying place to be. At this point I was laboring in the water.
My husband informed me this morning that I choked him for the better part of 45 minutes while I pushed with each contraction. He was behind me in the birthing pool and I had my arms up over my head clasped around his neck. Apparently I shoved my head into his throat with every contraction.
I remember that , but it never occurred to me to care in that moment how he felt, I was just trying to survive. The final 5 contractions were pivotal to me. The third to last push felt like my clitoris ripped in half. Ring of fire my butt--it felt more like someone pour acid on my clitoris.I felt this tearing continue as I pushed with the 4th and final contraction. Once I pushed his body out I felt like a new person.
THEN I had to push out the placenta. I thought that was the easy part. It hurt. I was so frustrated I didn't even look at my child for the 1st few minutes. Then they put him on my chest for skin to skin contact and to nurse. I cried like a fool and did my husband. He latched right on and begin to nurse. After 20 minutes I felt like my nipples had been scalded with boiling water. Once everything got cleaned up, I really looked at my baby and fell in love.This little dude is a huge blessing and I am looking forward to the journey of parenthood!!!That being said, NEVER again!!!! lol.
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 9:13pm |
Aww you had the baby already? Congrats. I love hearing baby news.
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 9:21pm |
My husband informed me this morning that I choked him
for the better part of 45 minutes while I pushed with each contraction.
He was behind me in the birthing pool and I had my arms up over my head
clasped around his neck.
you did good mama. way to go. blessings of long life over you, your hubby and your little one.
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 9:24pm |
mcelweewife wrote:
blaquefoxx wrote:
Hezekiah: "YAH strengthens"
Congrats! This thread was so inspirational and exciting!!! |
Yes this definition sealed the deal for us even though we decided on this hypothetical name for a son before we got married!
Yesterday was one of the most beautifully horrifying days of my life. After I dilated to 7 centimeters stuff got real. The pressure in my bladder was unbearable by that point. I thought I had to pee but I didn't.
it took THREE hours to get to eight centimeters. By this time it was 5:30 pm.
My midwife offered to break my water which I agreed to. This is when I feel labor began. I started having extremely intense contraction with an unbearable urge to push. I basically had a 7 lb turd lodged in my rectum and I couldn't run. That is a terrifying place to be. At this point I was laboring in the water.
My husband informed me this morning that I choked him for the better part of 45 minutes while I pushed with each contraction. He was behind me in the birthing pool and I had my arms up over my head clasped around his neck. Apparently I shoved my head into his throat with every contraction.
I remember that , but it never occurred to me to care in that moment how he felt, I was just trying to survive. The final 5 contractions were pivotal to me. The third to last push felt like my clitoris ripped in half. Ring of fire my butt--it felt more like someone pour acid on my clitoris.
I felt this tearing continue as I pushed with the 4th and final contraction. Once I pushed his body out I felt like a new person.
THEN I had to push out the placenta. I thought that was the easy part.
It hurt. I was so frustrated I didn't even look at my child for the 1st few minutes. Then they put him on my chest for skin to skin contact and to nurse. I cried like a fool and did my husband. He latched right on and begin to nurse. After 20 minutes I felt like my nipples had been scalded with boiling water. Once everything got cleaned up, I really looked at my baby and fell in love.
This little dude is a huge blessing and I am looking forward to the journey of parenthood!!!
That being said, NEVER again!!!! lol.
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Feeling like ripped clitoris??
Edited because I cannot spell for sh*t tonight for whatever reason. 
Edited by Miss SDY - Dec 21 2012 at 9:43pm
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YEA I AM NEVER HAVING KIDS(at least not right now)
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 9:37pm |
OMG! MCELWEEWIFE IS HERE! IVE BEEN WAITING HOURS FOR YOU TO RETURN!!!! I sound like an obsessed fan. How is my child? Will you show pics? Were you able to walk the next day? And i just want to say that the details of the birth were super descriptive, but very helpful. With that said, i will only be using this vajayjay for recreation, not procreation. 
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 9:39pm |
mcelweewife wrote:
blaquefoxx wrote:
Hezekiah: "YAH strengthens"
Congrats! This thread was so inspirational and exciting!!! |
Yes this definition sealed the deal for us even though we decided on this hypothetical name for a son before we got married!
Yesterday was one of the most beautifully horrifying days of my life. After I dilated to 7 centimeters stuff got real. The pressure in my bladder was unbearable by that point. I thought I had to pee but I didn't.
it took THREE hours to get to eight centimeters. By this time it was 5:30 pm.
My midwife offered to break my water which I agreed to. This is when I feel labor began. I started having extremely intense contraction with an unbearable urge to push. I basically had a 7 lb turd lodged in my rectum and I couldn't run. That is a terrifying place to be. At this point I was laboring in the water.
My husband informed me this morning that I choked him for the better part of 45 minutes while I pushed with each contraction. He was behind me in the birthing pool and I had my arms up over my head clasped around his neck. Apparently I shoved my head into his throat with every contraction.
I remember that , but it never occurred to me to care in that moment how he felt, I was just trying to survive. The final 5 contractions were pivotal to me. The third to last push felt like my clitoris ripped in half. Ring of fire my butt--it felt more like someone pour acid on my clitoris.
I felt this tearing continue as I pushed with the 4th and final contraction. Once I pushed his body out I felt like a new person.
THEN I had to push out the placenta. I thought that was the easy part.
It hurt. I was so frustrated I didn't even look at my child for the 1st few minutes. Then they put him on my chest for skin to skin contact and to nurse. I cried like a fool and did my husband. He latched right on and begin to nurse. After 20 minutes I felt like my nipples had been scalded with boiling water. Once everything got cleaned up, I really looked at my baby and fell in love.
This little dude is a huge blessing and I am looking forward to the journey of parenthood!!!
That being said, NEVER again!!!! lol.
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Thank you. I think that just made me decide not to have kids.
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