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I can clench them separately ... I'm shamed if this is a matter of practice
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Originally posted by tbaby123 tbaby123 wrote:

i just did a kegel.. i think my butt clenched a bit.. 

this might be a stupid question, but like when you tear to your butt how deep is the tear? like is it going through multiple layers of muscles?

They have different degrees of tears..  Most women don't tear that bad though.

Fourth-degree vaginal tear

Fourth-degree vaginal tears are the most severe. They involve the perineal muscles and anal sphincter as well as the tissue lining the rectum. Fourth-degree tears usually require repair in an operating room — rather than the delivery room — and might take months to heal. Complications such as fecal incontinence and painful intercourse are possible.

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/vaginal-tears/PR00143&slide=5


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Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:


I thought you'd push with the same muscles you use for kegels




me too Confused
my nurse told me to push as if im having a bm.

i tore a little both times. Cry them stitches were no joke. couldnt even hold my pee.


Cry

tearing makes me scared

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Thanks Bekah!

yea.. this whole process doesn't seem worth it to me lol
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I had a small tear and if felt like a 4th degree tear....OMG that ish was hella painful
 
I hope the OP is too caught up holding her baby to post an update.
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Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:


I thought you'd push with the same muscles you use for kegels




me too Confused
my nurse told me to push as if im having a bm.

i tore a little both times. Cry them stitches were no joke. couldnt even hold my pee.


Cry

tearing makes me scared

thats why you get drugs...i didn't feel a thing...until the magic juice wore off...then theres vicodin

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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

I can clench them separately ... I'm shamed if this is a matter of practice
Ricky's ready to join the strip club.   WERKKKK!!!!
 
 
next you'll be blowing out candles without ur mouthWink


Edited by Bunnyahh - Dec 20 2012 at 6:44pm
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we're defiling mcelweewife's thread Cry


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lolsmh@ people wanting an update so soon.
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I had a 4th degree laceration w/ my son.
His shoulder got stuck so they sliced and diced.
 
Took the an hr and 45 mins to sew my ish back together. Cry "first we have to repair your vagina, then your anus, then the area between them. And you can not leave the hospital until you have a BM. We want to be sure that no feces will come out your vagina." Stern Smile
 
I healed up pretty quick.I stopped lochia/bleeding in about 5 days.
 
My daughter was a diff story. Minimal tearing at the original epi site, but the after pains were horrible. Likely because I breast fed. Felt like my uterus was free in my body, unattached, bumping into my other organs, bruising itself. I had lochia/bleeding for 3 weeks.
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