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Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Hezekiah: "YAH strengthens"Approve
 
Congrats! This thread was so inspirational and exciting!!!


Yes this definition sealed the deal for us even though we decided on this hypothetical name for a son before we got married!

Yesterday was one of the most beautifully horrifying days of my life. After I dilated to 7 centimeters stuff got real. The pressure in my bladder was unbearable by that point. I thought I had to pee but I didn't.
it took THREE hours  to get to eight centimeters. By this time it was 5:30 pm.
My midwife offered to break my water which I agreed to. This is when I feel labor began. I started having extremely intense contraction with an unbearable urge to push. I basically had a 7 lb turd lodged in my rectum and I couldn't run. That is a terrifying place to be. At this point I was laboring in the water.

 My husband informed me this morning  that I choked him for the better part of 45 minutes while I pushed with each contraction. He was behind me in the birthing pool and I had my arms up over my head clasped around his neck. Apparently I shoved my head into his throat with every contraction.
I remember that , but it never occurred to me to care in that moment how he felt, I was just trying to survive.
The final 5 contractions were pivotal to me. The third to last push felt like my clitoris ripped in half. Ring of fire my butt--it felt more like someone pour acid on my clitoris.
I felt this tearing continue as I pushed with the 4th and final contraction. Once I pushed his body out I felt like a new person.
THEN
I had to push out the placenta
. I thought that was the easy part.
It hurt. I was so frustrated I didn't even look at my child for the 1st few minutes. Then they put him on my chest for skin to skin contact and to nurse. I cried like a fool and did my husband. He latched right on and begin to nurse.  After 20 minutes I felt like my nipples had been scalded with boiling water. Once everything got cleaned up, I really looked at my baby and fell in love.


This little dude is a huge blessing and I am looking forward to the journey of parenthood!!!

That being said, NEVER again!!!! lol.


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Aww you had the baby already? Congrats. I love hearing baby news.Party
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My husband informed me this morning  that I choked him for the better part of 45 minutes while I pushed with each contraction. He was behind me in the birthing pool and I had my arms up over my head clasped around his neck.

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you did good mama. way to go. blessings of long life over you, your hubby and your little one.

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Originally posted by mcelweewife mcelweewife wrote:

Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Hezekiah: "YAH strengthens"Approve
 
Congrats! This thread was so inspirational and exciting!!!


Yes this definition sealed the deal for us even though we decided on this hypothetical name for a son before we got married!

Yesterday was one of the most beautifully horrifying days of my life. After I dilated to 7 centimeters stuff got real. The pressure in my bladder was unbearable by that point. I thought I had to pee but I didn't.
it took THREE hours  to get to eight centimeters. By this time it was 5:30 pm.
My midwife offered to break my water which I agreed to. This is when I feel labor began. I started having extremely intense contraction with an unbearable urge to push. I basically had a 7 lb turd lodged in my rectum and I couldn't run. That is a terrifying place to be. At this point I was laboring in the water.

 My husband informed me this morning  that I choked him for the better part of 45 minutes while I pushed with each contraction. He was behind me in the birthing pool and I had my arms up over my head clasped around his neck. Apparently I shoved my head into his throat with every contraction.
I remember that , but it never occurred to me to care in that moment how he felt, I was just trying to survive.
The final 5 contractions were pivotal to me. The third to last push felt like my clitoris ripped in half. Ring of fire my butt--it felt more like someone pour acid on my clitoris.
I felt this tearing continue as I pushed with the 4th and final contraction. Once I pushed his body out I felt like a new person.
THEN
I had to push out the placenta
. I thought that was the easy part.
It hurt. I was so frustrated I didn't even look at my child for the 1st few minutes. Then they put him on my chest for skin to skin contact and to nurse. I cried like a fool and did my husband. He latched right on and begin to nurse.  After 20 minutes I felt like my nipples had been scalded with boiling water. Once everything got cleaned up, I really looked at my baby and fell in love.


This little dude is a huge blessing and I am looking forward to the journey of parenthood!!!

That being said, NEVER again!!!! lol.


 
 
 
YAY!!!! I have been waiting on you to update!!!! Congrats to you and your husband on your precious baby boy!!!! Big smileEmbarrassedBig smileEmbarrassedStarStar
 
Feeling like ripped clitoris??
Feeling like acid was poured on clitoris?? OMG!!! ShockedShockedShocked
 
I think my whole reproductive system just shut down and my vagina caved in on itself.. DeadCryDeadCry
 
 
Edited because I cannot spell for sh*t tonight for whatever reason. Cry


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YEA I AM NEVER HAVING KIDS(at least not right now)
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CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! Cry
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OMG! MCELWEEWIFE IS HERE! IVE BEEN WAITING HOURS FOR YOU TO RETURN!!!!
I sound like an obsessed fan. How is my child? Will you show pics? Were you able to walk the next day?
And i just want to say that the details of the birth were super descriptive, but very helpful. With that said, i will only be using this vajayjay for recreation, not procreation.
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Originally posted by mcelweewife mcelweewife wrote:

Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

Hezekiah: "YAH strengthens"Approve
 
Congrats! This thread was so inspirational and exciting!!!


Yes this definition sealed the deal for us even though we decided on this hypothetical name for a son before we got married!

Yesterday was one of the most beautifully horrifying days of my life. After I dilated to 7 centimeters stuff got real. The pressure in my bladder was unbearable by that point. I thought I had to pee but I didn't.
it took THREE hours  to get to eight centimeters. By this time it was 5:30 pm.
My midwife offered to break my water which I agreed to. This is when I feel labor began. I started having extremely intense contraction with an unbearable urge to push. I basically had a 7 lb turd lodged in my rectum and I couldn't run. That is a terrifying place to be. At this point I was laboring in the water.

 My husband informed me this morning  that I choked him for the better part of 45 minutes while I pushed with each contraction. He was behind me in the birthing pool and I had my arms up over my head clasped around his neck. Apparently I shoved my head into his throat with every contraction.
I remember that , but it never occurred to me to care in that moment how he felt, I was just trying to survive. The final 5 contractions were pivotal to me. The third to last push felt like my clitoris ripped in half. Ring of fire my butt--it felt more like someone pour acid on my clitoris.
I felt this tearing continue as I pushed with the 4th and final contraction. Once I pushed his body out I felt like a new person.
THEN I had to push out the placenta. I thought that was the easy part.
It hurt. I was so frustrated I didn't even look at my child for the 1st few minutes. Then they put him on my chest for skin to skin contact and to nurse. I cried like a fool and did my husband. He latched right on and begin to nurse.  After 20 minutes I felt like my nipples had been scalded with boiling water. Once everything got cleaned up, I really looked at my baby and fell in love.


This little dude is a huge blessing and I am looking forward to the journey of parenthood!!!

That being said, NEVER again!!!! lol.
 
Congrats! PartyPartyPartyPartyPartyParty
 
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Thank you. I think that just made me decide not to have kids.
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