I wear a kinky curly lace wig which looks like your pic. :)
I always detangle and put on some curl cream (lightly) in small sections throughout the house. Then I put the whole head of hair into a hair net - but the BIG hair net from the BSS made for people tryng to dreadlock their hair.
The next morning the first thing I do when I wake up is to remove the hair net and shake my hair out. It should not be stiff. Then I lightly spray some leave in conditioner and style.
I have breakfast and bath and but on my makeup ... and by then the hair is dry from the conditioner above.
Play with it until looks nice.
The key is HAIR PRODUCT! You cannot manage this hair with PRODUCT because it needs moisture.
I lovvvvve this hair - I will never go back to straight hair again!!!
I tried the pineapple but it makes my curl crazy looking the next day.