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"You look like you know when to shut up, what's your number"


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I swear to God! And to make it worse, he looked homeless, open toe sneakers and all.
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Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:

"You look like you know when to shut up, what's your number"


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I swear to God! And to make it worse, he looked homeless, open toe sneakers and all.
see....I'd give him the number to western psych
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LAWD this thread. 
I have too many inappropriate approaches. One at Walmart from this Paul Wall-looking wi . 
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Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

Am I the only one who politely takes numbers and keeps it moving? I say I have a man, but when a guy is extra persistent, I just take his number and throw it away. Is that mean?

I can't perceive HOW that could be mean. I hate when guys ask for my number. 


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Originally posted by Mixer Mixer wrote:

Originally posted by HunnyB HunnyB wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Originally posted by CamiK CamiK wrote:

This a low key brag thread..


No it's not. DeadDeadDeadDeadDeadDeadDead I don't find being made uncomfortable or even harassed to be bragging.
Right......All types get hit on...from anywhere within the spectrum

Unattractive<---------------------------------------------->Attractive
Are you calling some of the women here ugly?
No......I'm saying you don't have to lookattractive to get hit on....You can go to the gas station in curlers and get wolf whistlesLOL 

...or go to the gym in your hobo attire...or the ATM in slippers...or the grocery store in pajama pants.....men don't care

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Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

Am I the only one who politely takes numbers and keeps it moving? I say I have a man, but when a guy is extra persistent, I just take his number and throw it away. Is that mean?


no, it's not mean. 

i used to, but i have found out that i just don't care about their feelings anymore. usually, i ignore them and keep it moving. yes it results in insults, but i try not to let it get to me. the only time i have taken a number in recent years was when i thought the man was unstable. 
 
Yes. Sometimes it seems like the man summoned all his courage to say something, and I don't want to hurt his feelings. I looked a straight homeless bum at Rite Aide last week (I'm talking head-scarf, no make-up, and sweats), and the security guard asked if I'd take his number. I said I had a man, and he said he just wanted someone to talk to. I didn't have the heart to shoot him down. I especially felt like getting shot down from a homeless looking woman would really hurt a man's self-esteem, so I just took the number and threw it away later.


I wish these little college boys were like that...where you can just take the number and let them bow out gracefully.

They have the game bulletproofed with the upgrades in technology. They make sure they put your number in their phone and call immediately to ensure that you have theirs, and the number you gave is real.

Thus, you have no choice but to be mean and shut ish down from the jump if you aren't interested, or you will receive texts every 30 minutes. It took me out of my comfort zone in the beginning to give a blatant NO because I know how much courage it must take to put yourself out there like that, but the system is now broken so so will hearts.
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Some dude came to my work and had the nerve to tell me I'm cute for a dark skin girl and he usually goes for light-skinned girls.

His ass was 50 shades of Wesley Snipes with that colorism bullsh*t.

Also there is this white dude who comes to my job to hit on all of the black female employees and he is CREEPY. He is apparently autistic but I have never heard of autism giving one predatory mannerisms. This dude went on a monologue to me about how chocolate and vanilla should mix, smh. He also once did the worst and creepy rendition of the pokemon theme song. Ruined my childhood, smh.

Dustin, you need to stop coming here! My manager says he's been coming here for three years now! A damn shame!!
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i get hit on allllllll the time by young guys in my neighborhood

i told this dude i was old enough to be his mama, he said, 'yeah my baby mama'

i get asked frequently if i want my a$$ licked/ate

Some niccas these days are so effin gross
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Walked by a guy while I was sippin on my drank and he says, "I sho' do wish I was that straw."  What am I supposed to do with that??  Angry
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Originally posted by TXButterfly03 TXButterfly03 wrote:

Walked by a guy while I was sippin on my drank and he says, "I sho' do wish I was that straw."  What am I supposed to do with that??  Angry



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