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Wowwwwww, from this people get pedophile. Not only is that beyond reaching its disrespectful. Just because we're online and on a forum where we can voice our opinions doesn't mean we should throw sh!t like that out there all willy nilly.
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as a mother with young children, the mother should really consider the possibility that he may have ulterior or sinister motives

it's happened before more times than can be counted

with your children's safety in the balance, better safe than sorry


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (6) Thanks(6)   Quote ms_wonderland Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 24 2013 at 9:33pm
Originally posted by Wynter Wynter wrote:

Wowwwwww, from this people get pedophile. Not only is that beyond reaching its disrespectful. Just because we're online and on a forum where we can voice our opinions doesn't mean we should throw sh!t like that out there all willy nilly.

it's disrespectful to be thinking in the interest of the kids?  child molestation is common in arrangements like this, so no it's not reaching at all.  how many headlines do we have to read?  
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Originally posted by Wynter Wynter wrote:

Wowwwwww, from this people get pedophile. Not only is that beyond reaching its disrespectful. Just because we're online and on a forum where we can voice our opinions doesn't mean we should throw sh!t like that out there all willy nilly.


Let me clarify. I think its disrespectful because its another members family.....not just a story pulled from a website.

Every thought doesn't have to be said or typed....but again its a public forum so common courtesy doesn't count.
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I don't think he's a child molester but that's my opinion. What this situation is is misguided at best. Two immature people raising kids with no real plan has happened many times over. OP cares because she wants to help her nephew but he's an adult so all you can do is suggest IF he's not willing to listen. It may be wrong for her to move him in so quickly but it is what it is. Hopefully they can work this out for the sake of all parties involved. Again stranger things have happened.

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Dang... I've heard of the powers of pregnant coochie, but strong enough to make a nicca with no job wanna take on three kids that aren't his?

That's crazy.

Have y'all explained to him that he will be responsible for those kids fir the rest of his life, even when the lust fades?

Why would a woman even want a man with no job to adopt her children?

Yeah, this sh!t is all bad.
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Lord ha' mercy.  Please tell him something.  Tell him (and I'm sorry to be like this) but he gone be monetarily on the hook for all these kids.   Tell him that when they break up and he's gettin' fucced in the ass for child support he gone turn into one of these black men that blame black women for ruining their lives.

As for her...she need to be thinking about her babies and not dicc....at least not in house dicc.  He may not be a pedophile and we're only giving this dude the benefit of the doubt because it's somebody we eknow's family member but she don't know that.  Even men as young as he have the potential to be mentally fucced.  I feel bad for her babies because if it wasn't this boy it would be someone else.
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im not saying your nephew would ever harm a child. but how can a woman move a man in with her kids that she has only known for 3 days.. Confused 
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I don't even understand what she gets out of the deal besides some young energetic dack. He has no job and a small income that will soon dry up. 

How much money is he giving her monthly? 

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