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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 12 2009 at 2:02am
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If you have sex with a nasty person then you are nasty
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 12 2009 at 9:35pm
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

no, i did not. Turns out I was wrong.


They're women though.  Women want relationships..

To think a woman wouldn't because she's an escort, prostitute or stripper seems a bit far fetched.

I would assume it would make dating difficult, but not impossible.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 12 2009 at 11:15pm
Originally posted by SimplySloan SimplySloan wrote:

Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

no, i did not. Turns out I was wrong.


They're women though.  Women want relationships..

To think a woman wouldn't because she's an escort, prostitute or stripper seems a bit far fetched.

I would assume it would make dating difficult, but not impossible.


I was actually thinking it's the men who don't want to be in relationships with these women.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 13 2009 at 12:56pm
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:


Originally posted by SimplySloan SimplySloan wrote:


Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

no, i did not. Turns out I was wrong.
They're women though. Women want relationships..To think a woman wouldn't because she's an escort, prostitute or stripper seems a bit far fetched.I would assume it would make dating difficult, but not impossible.
I was actually thinking it's the men who don't want to be in relationships with these women.
sometimes that is easily bypassed or kept on a need to know basis. sometimes love can happen with those you least expect. maybe they are even better persons than the more conventional women, who knows...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 14 2009 at 9:41pm
Originally posted by niki_p niki_p wrote:

Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:


Originally posted by SimplySloan SimplySloan wrote:


Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

no, i did not. Turns out I was wrong.
They're women though.  Women want relationships..To think a woman wouldn't because she's an escort, prostitute or stripper seems a bit far fetched.I would assume it would make dating difficult, but not impossible.
I was actually thinking it's the men who don't want to be in relationships with these women.
sometimes that is easily bypassed or kept on a need to know basis. sometimes love can happen with those you least expect. maybe they are even better persons than the more conventional women, who knows...


Exactly.  I mean, I can see where Tropical would think men wouldn't want anything to do with them, but some men can actually look past what they do to make ends meet and see the woman for who she is, and not what she does.

Now, I wouldn't condone a woman who's employed this way to not share this with her SO.. because down the line, he's going to find out.. and some bad stuff could happen.

But yeah, guys will knowingly date, Marry and even have children with women who are actively doing this, or have in the past.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 12 2010 at 1:33pm
I do the same ,I d still date him but I would still think of him having sex with that ugly looking woman..where her lips n vagina have been..if they done it raw...yuck
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 15 2010 at 3:52am
Originally posted by dynamite23 dynamite23 wrote:

Originally posted by Allure Allure wrote:

Yes, I'm arrogant its no secret, but I have a right to be. I have several pageant titles under my belt and I model professionally but that's neither here nor there. BTW, why is it that when women are arrogant we get bashed, but when men are arrogant people say they have " swagger" etc ,and they get praised, although they may not be attractive at all. FYI- I'm single by choice, I'm currently working on my masters degree so that's where most of my focus is. But that's beside the point:

This thread is not about how I look, its about judging men based off of the women they deal with. And I was wondering how many people do this? Because I don't see anything wrong with it, and I think it makes perfect sense. If you saw a gorgeous man with a horrible looking loud obnoxious ghetto chick, wouldn't you question his standards?






The way you think is just so, i have no wordsConfused. I cannot stand arrogance in men or women.  I cut off my ex-bf because he was extremely arrogant and  I am humble yet confident individual. Our personalities did not mesh at all.



You can be confident, have "swagger" without being arrogant. There is a world of difference between those two wordsSmile.



Definition of swagger:

1. How one presents himself to the world, the ability to handle a situation with a sense of calm and uncanny grace. The ability to maintain a healthy level of self-confidence without appearing arrogant.
 
2. The seeming effortlessness to a person's admired style, the way they walk, talk and dress.

3. The inability to be easily shaken by anyone or anything.



Definition of Arrogance: wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

overbearing pride evidenced by a superior manner toward inferiors



Definition of confidence: wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

 freedom from doubt; belief in yourself and your abilities;

-being very sure of or positive about something



see?Wink


Anyway as for you cutting the guy off, it is your prerogative. As long as you're happy, that is the mantra the masses follow so do what makes you happy.

You don't know why he chose to sleep with her. You know absolutely nothing about her aside from her superficial looks which you deem "ugly". Remember ugly to one person is pretty/gorgeous to another. It is a matter of perceptionSmile

Just because you think you are gorgeous; you have been told you are gorgeous by a fair share of people does not mean everyone carries that same opinion. Someday you will come across an individual that finds you completely unattractive. Brace yourself for itSmile.

As for judging a man by the women he pursues, what we see on the outside does not depict the full story. A man might have chosen the loud, ghetto female because she is what he likes. Who am i to question his standards? That has nothing to do with me. If he is single and pursuing me, I don't want to listen to him harp about the women in his past  (their physical appearance) so much as I would want to know how he treated them by the way he talks about them.

To me the way a man talks about the women he's dated or been with in the past is always a dead give away of whether i should proceed or halt in my tracks.  If he is always debasing them, then i know he has a problem with respect for women. If he talks about them respectfully despite the fact that things did not work out then i know he will/ does have respect for me. This gives me a clue as to the type of man that he isSmile


I wish  you the best in your studies.
 
 
I totally agree with the highlighted
 
this chick can't be serious
I was lmao at the op, all this because she thought he shouldn't associate with someone she deamed ''UGLY''
 
and that sleeping around bit I don't believe now,because she didn't mention a word of it in her first couple posts when she was rambling about her many BEAUTY pageant titlesLOLLOLLOL
 
pretty pathetic
 
 
the only thing I would care to know of about my SO ex is her character, I couldn't care less how she looks because looks can be changed and altered easily
 
really and truly I couldn't care less about the ex
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 15 2010 at 4:03am
^ ITA... tssk tsk @ the op.... Chick gets a major *side eye*
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 31 2013 at 3:21pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I am the same way. People have patterns and I'd be damned if I jump in a pile of mediocre.
Its just a perception issue.


exactly. not only that but if you saw his ages and they all have a similar thing (ex: all latinas, long hair, big boobs and you are not hispanic, small boobs), most likely the relationship won't last long.
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