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ShadyLady
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 5:49pm |
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He can have a healthy relationship with his child without endangering his health staying with her ass. He's trippin for even considering otherwise.
Ummmm...hope he plans on getting a paternity test tho. People grow up, but better safe than sorry.
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csungrl09
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 5:49pm |
starflower7 wrote:
When I see men like this, black or white, I honestly wonder how many educated, sensible, childless women he passed up to find this trash.
It's a mental complex. Some people need drama in their lives. | This.
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Ladycoils
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 5:51pm |
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Her past shouldn't be a factor unless she is still doing those things. If he didn't want a chick with ba ge he shouldn't have boo-ed her up.
Edited by Ladycoils - Nov 13 2012 at 5:52pm
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Addicted19034
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 5:54pm |
ShadyLady wrote:
He can have a healthy relationship with his child without endangering his health staying with her ass. He's trippin for even considering otherwise.
. | Tis al, the way. Idk what his issue even is. Confirm the child is your, if so take care of it and go about your business. And get tested a couple times more.
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Cream1970
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:00pm |
personal quote, "when people bring drama and foolishness into their own lives, what do you think they're going to do to yours?" Two kids by two diff trifling men shows poor judgement (unless she was married to at least one of them). I'll date a guy with kids, but there is a limit on how many diff mothers and whether he was married to her and also a limit on how many other children by other men his child's mother has. I ain't checking for a guy that poked his peen into a woman that regularly uses poor judgement. That's a reflection of HIM. My life is peaceful, not going to get into a relationship that has drama written all over it.
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laceyfront
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:05pm |
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Lol dang how did this become his fault
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You aint know. this is BHM where we always blame the victim. But I bet they was crying out when their ex did them dirty 
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AshBash89
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:10pm |
What is the true issue here? He can go for joint/primary custody. It sounds like he isn't trying to let her go.
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callmeDEva
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:14pm |
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What is the true issue here? He can go for joint/primary custody. It sounds like he isn't trying to let her go. | Exactly. If they still live in the same city, he doesn't have to be a weekend father. He can see his little girl every day if he wants to. He wants them to tell him to work it out for the baby.
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FarraFace
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:15pm |
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You aint know. this is BHM where we always blame the victim. But I bet they was crying out when their ex did them dirty  | What is he a victim of? Her womb? Even though he had 2 visual examples of it's fruitfulness? All righty.
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Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:16pm |
starflower7 wrote:
When I see men like this, black or white, I honestly wonder how many educated, sensible, childless women he passed up to find this trash.
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In his case, maybe he was blinded by her booty beauty!
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