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neither of them thought the violence was abuse, just "disagreements", which was absolutely shocking... not until she went to the shelter and he went to court ordered domestic abuse support group 

She likely went with him because she thought he'd protect her, being so big

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what was the name of that one? Was it Fix Abusive Spouse? I have all the eppys somewhere, I want to watch that one.
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yes that's the one Purp

I actually told myself nope not watching but I eventually watched all the others so I clicked lol


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thanks Ricky. Maybe I shouldn't watch .

 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Printer_Ink Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 20 2014 at 4:36pm
I never watch the abused wife stories because though I am aware of Battered Women's Syndrome - I have a major problem with women that allow a man to speak to them and treat them like dirt ... such it escalates to the point that he hits her. This because an abuser is not gonna kick your butt on the first date. Nope – you would be gone. He has to work on you mentally bit by bit .. until one day he hauls off and hits you.

To me I wonder why she didn't break it off back when he started calling her stupid, or fat or whatever? Free will. Then it would have never gotten to the hitting stage.

My theory is that if all women had the self-esteem to recognize when they are dating a rat and leave early on ... all the abusers would be without a woman and would be forced to change their ways.

I say that because I don't think men like that can POOF just decide one day to start treating their women right. They have NO MOTIVATION to change if they can just go to the next female that will also allow him to treat her bad too.

To me .. both are guilty of foolishness so it's hard for me to really sympathize.
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her mother went through the same experiences or worse and his mother went through the same experiences and worse

So they both felt they were doing better than they've seen but still obviously it was far from normal.

With life in the way, they never paused to think about the why, the root behind the madness 

Frightening and tragic and ugly


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now i have to watch it.
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She did look young didn't she...lol

same thing i was thinking
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Oh my that first episode with saigon and erica was rough Cry
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