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yes HIM epitome, him. Didn't know if it would happen again????? Abusers specialize in crocodile tears she shouldn't risk it. Girl run. But she didnt



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Well, i live in Europe now so I don't see any TV comercials etc.

I watch her shows online... and maybe her own situation is screwly but to me - she gives good advice on her show.

This case .. very emotional.
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

yeah I thought the neighbors were gawkers but they seemed to genuinely miss her

Ive often wondered why they don't feed them fruit, vegetables, meat and go light on the carbs when they are like 500 lbs and can't feed themselves


That's the problem though - all her 'people' are enablers because if thet did not bring her the food - she would not he fat.

She CAN'T walk afterall.
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

yes HIM epitome, him. Didn't know if it would happen again????? Abusers specialize in crocodile tears she shouldn't risk it. Girl run. But she didnt





omg when he cried and said "people always blame him bc he's the big black man" i was like wtf?!! you're beating her!!!

he will kill that girl one day. easily. 
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epitome my bless-ed mercy I was like bruh you're a giant and choking her regularly ... really now who could stop you, other than you???!!!!

The worst part is that she just stays still until "it's over", not even fighting him, so yes you big and dangerous ... the black man part doesn't play into it





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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

...she needed to be shamed a little bit honestly...that's her problem...she has no sense of shame.
shaming someone is unlikely going to steer them towards help but rather guilt and self loathing

Shaming never works

Wouldn't be surprised if shaming/self loathing and seeing oneself as of no value put her there in the first place
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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

epitome my bless-ed mercy I was like bruh you're a giant and choking her regularly ... really now who could stop you, other than you???!!!!

The worst part is that she just stays still until "it's over", not even fighting him, so yes you big and dangerous ... the black man part doesn't play into it







...and they have kids! those children will repeat that cycle. that was so sad.


idk  Afro shaming as worked for me and millions of Catholics throughout history.LOL
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

yes HIM epitome, him. Didn't know if it would happen again????? Abusers specialize in crocodile tears she shouldn't risk it. Girl run. But she didnt





omg when he cried and said "people always blame him bc he's the big black man" i was like wtf?!! you're beating her!!!

he will kill that girl one day. easily. 

this is what I thought as well...

I don't know...but I usually try to steer clear from men who have that "i'll kill a b!tch look"..... there is no way I would see that man in the street and give him my phone number let alone date him. He looks cray-cray. 
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I wanted to jump through the screen at that Big Giant smh....
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neither of them thought the violence was abuse, just "disagreements", which was absolutely shocking... not until she went to the shelter and he went to court ordered domestic abuse support group 

She likely went with him because she thought he'd protect her, being so big

You're going to strangle me for not using the sink strainer? While I'm cooking your food? If you ate anything from this kitchen other than poison then my name is not rickysrose.


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