I shouldn't have to break it down but
- Many of the sexually abused were assaulted as children and in no way are responsible for that abuse
- Many of those children worked through or past the trauma to live full, richly balanced lives
I could go on, it's likely no use but no one is immune, given certain circumstances out of anyone's control, anyone can get raped ... so calling someone damaged goods ie irreparable, disposable is simply not fair, not true
Bad decisions in the past don't have to mean bad decisions in the future, for anyone