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It would depend on the age of the person and where they grew up.  Blacks and whites don't freely interact in America, so I really don't think it's that odd.  I would actually be more wary of a WM who dates black women exclusively.

I am the only black woman my husband ever knowingly dated.  He had dated a biracial girl before, but did not know she was mixed until he saw a pic of her mom. LOL    There just weren't that many black women in his circle, especially ones that he was attracted to.

I'd find out more before dismissing him based on solely that statement.
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Minda, you are killing me ever so softly with that "bitch, sit" comment.
Siggy worthy.
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Originally posted by honeyb87 honeyb87 wrote:

Minda, you are killing me ever so softly with that "bitch, sit" comment.
Siggy worthy.


He wants to behave like a dog on a women's forum he's obsessed with, bitch is the title he's earned and the treatment he will receive!
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This usy happens when I date outside my race, and I never care. It's not a big deal to me. *shrug*
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well that escalated quickly
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I don't like that , especially since its almost always said as if it's something that I should be proud of. I will not be the first or only black person they know or interact with.
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I am always someone's first Black girl they've gotten involved with.
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Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Sexuality is completely different because it's genetic.
Race is not genetic?Confused


Never implied that it wasn't. But attraction by race seems to be treated as genetic when it's clearly not.

Attractive is attractive yet sometimes people seem to feel a need to apply race as  a vital factor in attraction.


Oh. Well generally speaking, people are usually attracted to people who are like them. White with white, black with black, Asian with Asian, etc.
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Lmao @ "people are just people"
That's damn hilarious. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Midna Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 8:38am
Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Sexuality is completely different because it's genetic.
Race is not genetic?Confused


Never implied that it wasn't. But attraction by race seems to be treated as genetic when it's clearly not.

Attractive is attractive yet sometimes people seem to feel a need to apply race as  a vital factor in attraction.


Oh. Well generally speaking, people are usually attracted to people who are like them. White with white, black with black, Asian with Asian, etc.


I believe that's a part of the human psyche- liking those who are similar to you for a sense of belonging. But liking others where the biggest factor in attraction is due to race or being unattracted because of race is not.
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