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What if its a non black man that ONLY dates black women? Would yall think he has some type of fetish?
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Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

What if its a non black man that ONLY dates black women? Would yall think he has some type of fetish?


It depends. Is he one of those creepy types, or it could be that black women are just his type. the creepers generally trick off,a little Birdie told me that....the normal guys who prefer black women are cool

I don't interact that much with non black people much so a guy like that would have to be deep in the trenches of black environments for me to meet him
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nope I wouldn't. 

 I dated a black guy who constantly told me that I was the first light skin girl he dated.  I think if I person keeps bringing it up, they secretly have a problem with it  so they have  to keep reminding you that you are not the "norm" for them, thus they could be out at any second. 

This guy had  a problem with light skin women and kept telling me I was the exception.   Well he had a baby with this dark skin girl while we were together.   And they are still together.  He has a preference for dark skin women...I was just an experiment.  And I can't blame him, cause he gave me fair warning.   He kept vocalizing it cause he wasn't okay with it.
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Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Because my horrible Jewish ex started off our relationship like that and my dumb coon-at-the-time ass was flattered by that stupidity, my answer is an automatic hell no because that was exactly how the relationship continued as.

Black this, black that. I am proud of being black, yes. But there is far more to me than my skin color. If you cannot look past the color of my skin and the one-dimensional racist image you have of my race, we do not need to associate. You can acknowledge my skin color, but let that be it. You should not be behaving differently because of it. You should not be treating me differently because of it. You should not be having different expectations because of it.

My ex did everything horribly purely because I was black and I learned very well from it.

LMFAO @ "coon-at-the-time".

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Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Sexuality is completely different because it's genetic.
Race is not genetic?Confused


Never implied that it wasn't. But attraction by race seems to be treated as genetic when it's clearly not.

Attractive is attractive yet sometimes people seem to feel a need to apply race as  a vital factor in attraction.


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Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Because my horrible Jewish ex started off our relationship like that and my dumb coon-at-the-time ass was flattered by that stupidity, my answer is an automatic hell no because that was exactly how the relationship continued as.

Black this, black that. I am proud of being black, yes. But there is far more to me than my skin color. If you cannot look past the color of my skin and the one-dimensional racist image you have of my race, we do not need to associate. You can acknowledge my skin color, but let that be it. You should not be behaving differently because of it. You should not be treating me differently because of it. You should not be having different expectations because of it.

My ex did everything horribly purely because I was black and I learned very well from it.

LMFAO @ "coon-at-the-time".

FOH


You fuck outta here. For once. Aren't you the same fool bitching and whining about us but then doing a 180 with your simp act when you get called out on your hypocrisy?

Bitch, sit.
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Originally posted by NailtechDC NailtechDC wrote:

nope I wouldn't. 

 I dated a black guy who constantly told me that I was the first light skin girl he dated.  I think if I person keeps bringing it up, they secretly have a problem with it  so they have  to keep reminding you that you are not the "norm" for them, thus they could be out at any second. 

This guy had  a problem with light skin women and kept telling me I was the exception.   Well he had a baby with this dark skin girl while we were together.   And they are still together.  He has a preference for dark skin women...I was just an experiment.  And I can't blame him, cause he gave me fair warning.   He kept vocalizing it cause he wasn't okay with it.


This is exactly what is to be avoided in a relationship. No one deserves to be reduced to an "experiment" or a "special snowflake/exception."
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Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

What if its a non black man that ONLY dates black women? Would yall think he has some type of fetish?

my dh used to work with this guy who only dated black girls when he was younger...my dh asked him why that was

he said where he was from all the white girls dated black guys so by subtraction the white guys dated sisters
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Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Originally posted by NailtechDC NailtechDC wrote:

nope I wouldn't. 

 I dated a black guy who constantly told me that I was the first light skin girl he dated.  I think if I person keeps bringing it up, they secretly have a problem with it  so they have  to keep reminding you that you are not the "norm" for them, thus they could be out at any second. 

This guy had  a problem with light skin women and kept telling me I was the exception.   Well he had a baby with this dark skin girl while we were together.   And they are still together.  He has a preference for dark skin women...I was just an experiment.  And I can't blame him, cause he gave me fair warning.   He kept vocalizing it cause he wasn't okay with it.


This is exactly what is to be avoided in a relationship. No one deserves to be reduced to an "experiment" or a "special snowflake/exception."
 
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