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Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:


Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:


Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Lets say you hit it off with someone of another race and they reveal to you that they have never dated your race before, would you let them pursue you? Or would you date them?





lol well if he says it like that then I see what you mean. But if he says it matter-of-factly (after you are already dating) then it's fine. But yes someone has said that to me before and I did not take it well. It sounds so devious. It comes out like he's expecting you to be his first, like an experiment.




Thank you!!!! That's the perfect word! Experiment. I don't want to be someone someone wanted to just try.
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Me and that type of person wouldn't be compatible. Let's say I was gonna date interracial, he would need to have grown up around blacks and dated black girls.
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Why is the assumption that the person saying this is not Black?
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i've been the first black girl some guys have dated.  it's actually what made me like yt people less.
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Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

Why is the assumption that the person saying this is not Black?



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Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

Why is the assumption that the person saying this is not Black?
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Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

Why is the assumption that the person saying this is not Black?

A black man that's never dated a black woman?? Eww..they are not my type and there no excuse for that. Unless he grew up in Iceland he should have dated a sista. He must be damaged beyond repair
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Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

Why is the assumption that the person saying this is not Black?

that's that sh*t i dont like
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Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

Why is the assumption that the person saying this is not Black?


Lol ouch! It's like that Lima? Well I guess that is the reality these days.
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I only ask because I know men/women that take pride in being the exception, and they have Black SO's. It isn't an uncommon occurrence among men or women.

ETA: I'm not trying to stir the pot.

Edited by Limalady - Dec 25 2012 at 9:42pm
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