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Yes ma'am you do.
But I've come to understand that marriage is a different ball game.
Throw in kids, properties, feeling humiliated, memories.
& it depends on the circumstances surrounding the infidelity IMO.

If he or she is a serial cheater than I'll help you pack your bags but if it was a one time affair I wouldn't judge(not sure if that's the word I'm looking for) anyone for staying and trying to work it out.



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Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

I've sort of been in this situation before but by the time I found out, the other woman was...how should I put it...out of reach. Lucky for her.


did u want to keep him?
if so--

why not confront him...and try to get him to change his behavior?

because tbh the way i see it.. if she knew about you and still wanted to mess w/ him w/ her disrepectful ass-- I doubt she'd grow a conscience and be like dang-- let me stop messing with him now. his girl confronted me.
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Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

calling the other women?  say wha?  but for why??????????  no.


I've never done it but I would. I'd do more than that, in fact.
 
but it seems so counterproductive, imo star.  like what do you think would come from a conversation with a woman who is effing your man?  do you think she will be totally truthful?
 
what more, in fact, would you do?


Who's star? LOL

I'd want to know if she knew about me and then I'd know how to proceed. Notification of her husband/bf may be in order and other more concrete things I'm not at liberty to say. Embarrassed
 
you know who star is...lol
 
anyway, if a chick new about me...i wouldn't expect her to be truthful about anything honestly.  and  if she didn't know about me then i would assume she would be hurt as well which could lead to some potential bs coming out of her mouth.  bottom line...i think it would be a mess trying to sift thru the truth and the lies.  ain't nobody got time for that...
 
i've never called another woman and the truth still somehow always manages to reveal itself.
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Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

I've sort of been in this situation before but by the time I found out, the other woman was...how should I put it...out of reach. Lucky for her.


did u want to keep him?
if so--

why not confront him...and try to get him to change his behavior?

because tbh the way i see it.. if she knew about you and still wanted to mess w/ him w/ her disrepectful ass-- I doubt she'd grow a conscience and be like dang-- let me stop messing with him now. his girl confronted me.


If I wrote out a list of the things I did to that boy after I found that out, you would want to have me committed. No I did not want to be with him. I'm not for swapping bodily fluids with nasty men and their hoes. I was so mad at him. Even though we always used a condom. I don't know what type of diseases she had. And plus she was married. And who knows who else her hubby was messing with. Just nasty. But I settled that situation.
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yeah i'd imagine talking to a married woman that is cheating with your man would be like talking to pathological liar...lol
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

yeah i'd imagine talking to a married woman that is cheating with your man would be like talking to pathological liar...lol


Oh he told me she knew about me. My first call/visit would have been straight to her man.
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SweetNovember did the woman die or something?
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oh well that is different lol  where did she go?
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Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

SweetNovember did the woman die or something?


She did. That's when he told me.
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Shocked why did he tell you at all?  
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