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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

calling the other women?  say wha?  but for why??????????  no.


I've never done it but I would. I'd do more than that, in fact.
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Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:


and then add to that having to use my good phone battery on calling a list of girls and telling them- Stop messing w/ my baby daddy.

heavens no!
aint nobody got time for that.

buy some shoes.. wipe my tears n keep it moving.
 
lol.  i mean what are they gonna say?  ok mam i won't mess with him anymore?  eff you bish you aren't the boss of me?  is there really any in between?LOL
 
buying new shoes seems like it would be way more fun and entertaining anyway...LOL
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And after it took her all that time to get that ring smh.
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Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I'm not talking about lala specifically.
But my eyes have been opened to some women this summer dealing with cheating men and yes I've become more sympathetic .

It's not nearly as easy as I once foolishly thought
Alot of variables in these scenarios
 
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and you cant really say what you would do until you're in that situation. 

just had a conversation about this 


and if you have been in a similar situation.. do u then have the right to say "not me not now"
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Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

calling the other women?  say wha?  but for why??????????  no.


I've never done it but I would. I'd do more than that, in fact.
 
but it seems so counterproductive, imo star.  like what do you think would come from a conversation with a woman who is effing your man?  do you think she will be totally truthful?
 
what more, in fact, would you do?
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and im not an insensitive bastard.. i promise.

I've worked w/ women who were abused/cheated on etc etc.

i can be empathetic to a situation w/o being sympathetic especially if you continue to put yourself and your heart in harms way.


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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

calling the other women?  say wha?  but for why??????????  no.


I've never done it but I would. I'd do more than that, in fact.
 
but it seems so counterproductive, imo star.  like what do you think would come from a conversation with a woman who is effing your man?  do you think she will be totally truthful?
 
what more, in fact, would you do?


Who's star? LOL

I'd want to know if she knew about me and then I'd know how to proceed. Notification of her husband/bf may be in order and other more concrete things I'm not at liberty to say. Embarrassed
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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

calling the other women?  say wha?  but for why??????????  no.


now you know this isn't new LOL
lol they made a popular 70s song about this right? Calling up your man's side piece and telling her to back off?


LOL yep.

Wasn't there a thread here about calling the GF's to let them know about upcoming nuptials (and not to invite them either LOL).
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I've sort of been in this situation before but by the time I found out, the other woman was...how should I put it...out of reach. Lucky for her.
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Yes ma'am you do.
But I've come to understand that marriage is a different ball game.
Throw in kids, properties, feeling humiliated, memories.
& it depends on the circumstances surrounding the infidelity IMO.

If he or she is a serial cheater than I'll help you pack your bags but if it was a one time affair I wouldn't judge(not sure if that's the word I'm looking for) anyone for staying and trying to work it out.



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