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mrshairdo 
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 Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 11:11pm |
 nycdiva357 wrote:
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getting married during and after being cheated on is never a win
someone taught me a long time ago that whoever wins the cheater is really the loser
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u spitting hot fire ... lol
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lol because i hate the capes for women who stay who are constantly getting cheated on it irks me
and i really hate the "its hard" bullshiit
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 11:12pm |
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I'm not talking about lala specifically.
But my eyes have been opened to some women this summer dealing with cheating men and yes I've become more sympathetic .
It's not nearly as easy as I once foolishly thought
Alot of variables in these scenarios
Edited by jonesable - Jan 08 2013 at 11:12pm
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 11:12pm |
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ms_wonderland wrote:
if i were a jump off, the phone call would've made me want to keep fcking him. |
guuuuuuuuuuuuurlll!
feeling all hype and sheit cuz wifey thought u were big enough of a threat that she called u lol |
Lmao. The only real winner in these situations is the cheater who is knowingly having his fill of cake(s) with no fcuks given. 
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 11:14pm |
jonesable wrote:
I'm not talking about lala specifically.
But my eyes have been opened to some women this summer dealing with cheating men and yes I've become more sympathetic .
It's not nearly as easy as I once foolishly thought
Alot of variables in these scenarios |
I am this way too. Especially if kids are in the situation.
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 11:16pm |
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You are reaching comparing going to the gym and staying in a relationship where cheating is involved.
Come on now.
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lol thanks
but yea i hear u but im just making a point...my point is there is so much shiit in life that is hard, u dont get to just tap out and make stupid decisions because of that tho....like be stronger than that
i dunno i've always been taught strength and that's shown me how weak some ppl really are and how much they don't even try....i dont have sympathy for folks like that and a lot of women in these cheating situations are just like that
i mean really, why would i feel sorry for Lala? is she being abused, was melo controlling her mind, body and soul? did he make her cut off her family, etc,etc....was she stuck with him cuz he was the sole breadwinner?
none of these apply to her so i draw the conclusion that she just wanted a baller, the lifestyle, etc...
i don't feel sorry for her lol
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 11:17pm |
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i can understand trying to work it out...if you really feel like it can be salvaged. but i don't understand speaking to the other woman. i don't see what is to be gained from that...
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 11:17pm |
mrshairdo wrote:
happy 4b wrote:
@mrshairdo
You are reaching comparing going to the gym and staying in a relationship where cheating is involved.
Come on now.
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lol thanks
but yea i hear u but im just making a point...my point is there is so much shiit in life that is hard, u dont get to just tap out and make stupid decisions because of that tho....like be stronger than that
i dunno i've always been taught strength and that's shown me how weak some ppl really are and how much they don't even try....i dont have sympathy for folks like that and a lot of women in these cheating situations are just like that
i mean really, why would i feel sorry for Lala? is she being abused, was melo controlling her mind, body and soul? did he make her cut off her family, etc,etc....was she stuck with him cuz he was the sole breadwinner?
none of these apply to her so i draw the conclusion that she just wanted a baller, the lifestyle, etc...
i don't feel sorry for her lol |
You mean lol. But maybe she sees staying in the relationship as a form of strength. Her parents aren't together and her mom was really bitter about her having her dad walk her down the aisle. Maybe she doesn't want to end up like her mom. Who knows really...
Edited by happy 4b - Jan 08 2013 at 11:20pm
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 11:18pm |
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there are no variables worth my integrity and sanity.
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 11:19pm |
nycdiva357 wrote:
there are no variables worth my integrity and sanity.
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ur already insane
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Posted: Jan 08 2013 at 11:19pm |
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calling the other women? say wha? but for why?????????? no. |
now you know this isn't new
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