Is this a good moisturizing conditioner?

I'm going to wash my hair tomorrow and I'm in the process of reversing a protein overload. So far most moisturizing conditioners I come across have silicones and protein somewhere. I wash using tresemme luxurious moisture conditioner but it made my hair slightly hard when it dried. Even after I loaded it with glycerin. I wash looking at my brothers conditioner, I actually picked it out for him when he relaxed his hair but I didn't at it too carefully. It's a small name brand so I can't get any data on it from the internet. Here's the info 

Name: Organics Conditioner for dry and damaged hair with shea butter

Description: Nature's own remedy of Natural Shea Butter is well known for its excellent moisturising and soothing properties. ORGANICS revitalising conditioner enriched with Shea butter will help quench dry and damaged hair

Ingredients: Aqua, Cetearyl Alcohol, Dimethiconol, Cetrimonium Chloride, Parfum(Fragrance), Disodium EDTA, Citric Acid, DMDM Hydrantoin, TEA-Dodecylbenzene Sulfonate, Cetyl Hydroxyethylcellulose, Lysine HCl, Glycine Soja, Butyrospermum Parkii, Methylchloroisothiazolinone, Sodium Hydroxide, Limonene, Linalool, Hexyl Cinnamal, Citronellol, Benzyl Salicyclate, Butylphenyl Methylpropional

Does this conditioner contain any no no's for protein overload? It appears to be silicone and protein free but I'm not sure. Also, where exactly is the Shea Butter in the ingredients?

Which ones the silicone? And yea, I did. Adding olive oil made my hair even harder to moisturize afterwards. I think oils and silicones are a probably a bad combo. And the honey made my hair feel weird and stiff, even after I rinsed my hair with warm water a dozen times.

Dimethiconol is the silicone. Normally when i can't get a conditioner to work I'll add all types of moisturizing conditioners and it works even adding non food grade aloe vera gel help. Castor oil is a good moisturizing oil.

does you hair feel stiff and hard to moisturize while the mixed conditioner is in your hair or afterwards? what has been making your hail feel better?