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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Yes, there are things that are too private and no one knows about them except for me (or me and whoever else was there at the time).

My personal rule is I don't tell anyone ANYTHING, unless I wouldn't mind it being known by EVERYONE. There is no such thing as a secret.


Only time two people can keep a secret is if one of them is dead.

pretty much. i never regret cutting someone off in fear they'll tell my business, cuz i dont tell anyone anything damaging
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Some secrets need to be kept just that....secrets. I don't give a damn how much someone close to you or otherwise says "It's ok...you can tell me anything." or "You can trust me".

It's all bullshyt. Because as long as we're dealing with other humans, they ALL have the capability to judge, misinterpret, and treat or look at you differently because of said secret.
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there are certain things that I will never in this life speak aloud.  it ain't wise to tell all.
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Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

all my life, I've always been that person people confide in..people tell me everything about their personal lives and I have no idea why

..I ain't telling you sh!t thoughLOL, some things are better left unsaid and kept close to your heart.


This has always been me too. I have had strangers in the waiting room at a doctor's office tell me things that make me go Shocked. People just feel comfortable telling me things. I have actually helped people with the advice I gave so I guess its a blessing.
 




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Originally posted by iWorship_BlackGirl iWorship_BlackGirl wrote:

I don't get close with anyone...The only person I'm close with is my mother. I'm not even that much personal with my grandma. And it takes an extremely long time for me to get close to a chick. I've never been in a relationship that long for me to reach that level of trust. I would have to be with a chick at least a full year before I fully open up like that. It may be my Cancerian ways. But even then... I don't trust these hoes.... they just want the guap.

Out of all my close "friends" I never revealed secret things to them...So technically every friend I've ever had was an associate. I don't trust these hoes... I don't trust these n* s.
I only had two female Best Friends in my life..and I never told them all my secret...
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Originally posted by iWorship_BlackGirl iWorship_BlackGirl wrote:

Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

I have some things that I will take to grave with me. I'm not a very open person.



 

Uh oh... You aint let them kappas run that train did you? But that's messed up.. I hope you don't get married keeping hidden secrets from your husband, cause I'm sure you'd wan't him to tell you everything. I don't think you'll ever have succesful relationships keeping secrets to the grave like that.

How are you sure of what I would want? I don't know you man, go that way--->
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I'm a classic over sharer . You could talk to me for one second and know my whole life story. Well maybe I'm exaggerating a little but I really dont keep my mouth shut. Lol.
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Yes, I have secrets that I have not shared with anyone - I will take them to the grave.
 
I do not believe in telling your/partner husband everything either  ....  keep some mystery in the relationship - Geesh.Confused
 
(Heck, I have a couple friends that have known for a good 10 years that still think I am wearing my real hair!)


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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:


Yes, I have secrets that I have not shared with anyone - I will take them to the grave.
 
I do not believe in telling your/partner husband everything either  ....  keep some mystery in the relationship - Geesh.Confused
 
(Heck, I have a couple friends that have known for a good 10 years that still think I am wearing my real hair!)

are they white?
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No, they are Black .. but I am not wearing that long 22 inch straight hair that looks so great that it invites attention everywhere I go.
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