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    Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 4:52pm
I want to say most of us have a close friend, family member or partner we can confide in. Is there a level of secrecy that you can't even bring yourself to say out loud or tell the truth about to anyone? (Not saying you should confess here) Is there something too private for you to share with your loved ones?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 4:54pm
yes and there are things that people have confided in me that i wished they hadnt.  sometimes you need to keep your own counsel.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 4:56pm
Would you ever tell them in the future to keep that type of stuff to themselves?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:03pm
Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Would you ever tell them in the future to keep that type of stuff to themselves?


i think i wrote about this a few month ago but people have a tendency to tell a secret then afterward say keep this between us.  folks dont even give you the option anymoreLOL

people who know me pretty much know im not going to tell anyone so my saying keep that sh*t to yourself next time isnt really that effective when all they wanted to was to lay down a burden.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:08pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

yes and there are things that people have confided in me that i wished they hadnt.  sometimes you need to keep your own counsel.
omgosh yes. lol. but at the same time ppl can come talk to me about whatever.

on the flip side: i dont share alot about myself...just basic stuff. i dont even have secrets or things like that...Confusedi just feel weird about ppl knowing everything about me i guess.Confused
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:09pm
Yes, there are things that are too private and no one knows about them except for me (or me and whoever else was there at the time).

My personal rule is I don't tell anyone ANYTHING, unless I wouldn't mind it being known by EVERYONE. There is no such thing as a secret.

Only time two people can keep a secret is if one of them is dead.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:10pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Yes, there are things that are too private and no one knows about them except for me (or me and whoever else was there at the time).

My personal rule is I don't tell anyone ANYTHING, unless I wouldn't mind it being known by EVERYONE. There is no such thing as a secret.

Only time two people can keep a secret is if one of them is dead.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:16pm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:20pm
In general, yes. For me specifically, not really. I'm rather dull.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:21pm
I have some things that I will take to grave with me. I'm not a very open person.
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