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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 23 2012 at 9:51am
I figured " plate fixin" was a synecdoche .
It encompasses the tradtional female role
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 23 2012 at 10:32am
yea.. you would think so but i think some took it in a literal sense, hence my clarification
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 23 2012 at 10:33am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

you know to be honest, making a plate isnt that much of a big deal for me moreso than the ability to be able to cook.


oh i gets downnnnnn
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 23 2012 at 11:02am
Wifey duties yea...girlfriend nah
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 23 2012 at 11:11am
Absolutely.
 
And after a while, it certainly can start to feel like a duty *side eyes that nucca*
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 23 2012 at 11:36am
i like fixin plates...i like food to be presented well...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 23 2012 at 12:52pm
This is strictly my opinion (what I used to do):
In GF/BF type relationship I would sometimes cook for my BF, I would never clean his place, do his laundry and I've never been asked to do that.
As a wife, I like cooking and I do it well so that's my thing. Cleaning also because I work a part time job and have more time than my husband. If we both worked full time, we'd have to share these responsibilities.
I firmly believe that everyone must know how to cook and clean because these are the necessities of life.

I don't believe that there are "duties" that work for everybody.

Also, I must say that I find it funny some of you think a man will marry you if you do everything for him as a mere GF/fiancee whatever. I know plenty of lazy, slovenly, mouthy married b*tches who are somehow able to keep a man.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 23 2012 at 2:10pm
I rarely cook and damn sure don't fix plates...luckily my bf is willing to settle for me chucking his stuff and the laundry with mine...he still gotta help me fold tho .
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 23 2012 at 8:35pm
I like to fold, but from the looks of my bedroom right now, you couldn't tell.
I love organization though and would never want anyone to fold or wash my clothes, unless it was a dry cleaners/maid service.

If I had a male s/o, I wouldn't mind doing his laundry. I really enjoy it. However, when dating a girl....fck no. I don't know why, and I would never wash our clothes together either. I am not into folding her panties or bras, but I fold boxers into the cutest squares.
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