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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

oh not the plate fixing debate again.
but for mtc, i wouldnt mind it if we are just long term bf/gf but he shouldnt expect it. and that only if he's busy/got his hands full/at my family's home
Yes this is how I feel. 
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When I cook, I say, "dinner's done." That or, "I made breakfast."  I'll make a plate for a kid though but to be honest, I let my 3yr old niece get her own food with minor supervision.

I don't want anyone to make my plate either, even at restaurants. I think that is why I like salad bars so much.
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when i make dinner i plate.
when he makes dinner he plates.
idk why bhm makes this issue so dramatic
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It's weird that aa BHM'ers go kinda hard with gf/wife duties, but not as hard when it comes to parenting duties and taking care of parents.
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

when i make dinner i plate.
when he makes dinner he plates.
idk why bhm makes this issue so dramatic


What if I want seconds?
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I just got a text about someone fixing me a fcking plate. BHM is so damn weird sometimes.
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Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

when i make dinner i plate.
when he makes dinner he plates.
idk why bhm makes this issue so dramatic


What if I want seconds?

your legs don't work?Confused
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I think we'd be a family with the food being on the dinner table already and everybody puts their own portions on it.

& I don't like plates anyway. I eat out of bowls.
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Lol
When I wake up in the morning my fiance asks me if i am hungry, and if i say no, he lists all my fav breakfast foods
And ask me if I want that. I eventually give in.

If he is leaving for work, he makes a big cup of tea and drinks it until he has to leave. When leaving, he brings it to the bed and feeds me a sip then leaves the mug in my hand.

If I wake before him, I ask him if he wants tea, and I make it for him.

If i make dinner and i set the dining room table, and he wants seconds, sometimes he goes to get it before I even know he wants more.

Everyone and every relation has it's peeves.

I complain that his body hair/beard...still not sure wtf it is... is all over the bathroom floor and shower stall, but my sister thinks this is nothing to get annoyed about. I just HATE HATE HATE to see shed hair.

Meanwhile, she needs her own bedroom so that sometimes she can be alone. GIRL...bye!
I hateeee to sleep alone. I never really sleep deeply if I am alone.

You just have to find someone compatible or compromise a bit



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you know to be honest, making a plate isnt that much of a big deal for me moreso than the ability to be able to cook.
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