Is there a such thing as girlfriend/wife duties?

apart from maybe having children and being a provider (dependant on the couples expectations of one another) marriage shouldnt change your relationship with regards to what you put into it and do in it that much

i mean id find it hard pressed to expect someone to do something they never did just because i've married her.

like if she doesnt cook and alluvasudden after the honeymoon i expect to come home to gourmet meals or a spotless home when she never did that before. she'd be well within her right to say nicca, you met me like this you knew what you were getting into

furthermore, im not one to tell people what they should be doing in the confines of their relationship, so do or dont do what makes you happy but with the only duty of mutual respect for one another

this reminds me of the sexual dutie/obligations thread we had before

Edited by afrokock - Nov 22 2012 at 1:21pm

I agree.
All in all, people with the same values should team up. I'm not going to marry a man who is none of what I want my husband to be. And so, I never (continued) dated such men.

Edited by Derri - Nov 22 2012 at 2:05pm

313chick wrote: Jr1127 wrote: Maybe as a wife for me to fix his plate but not as a girlfriend. this and if I did fix his plate it would be only for special occasions like his birthday, holidays or when he is going through something difficult. I just don't believe in giving a man all of wife benefits if I'm only his girlfriend. Because whats the point of him marrying me then...

BoutThatLife wrote: Wife duties: cooking, cleaning, child care, making your man happy within reason.you don't gotta do no degrading deviant sh*t if that's not your thing but suck a Dick a few times a week and serve up that coochie regularly As for girlfriend duties, you can treat him how you want.if he's hubby material then start letting him get a taste of wife duties but you don't have to since y'all not married. I wouldn't recommend acting like a wife without a ring

afro