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Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:

Originally posted by 313chick 313chick wrote:

Originally posted by Jr1127 Jr1127 wrote:

Maybe as a wife for me to fix his plate but not as a girlfriend.
this and if I did fix his plate it would be only for special occasions like his birthday, holidays or when he is going through something difficult. I just don't believe in giving a man all of wife benefits if I'm only his girlfriend.Because whats the point of him marrying me then...

So how will he know what kind of wife you will be if you don't treat him as you would if you were married? 

Some of you will never been able to keep a man.
That should answer your question.  I agree with everything about BoutThatLife Post. If my mother could do it with my father and they are still married today I know there is hope for me.

Just because you can keep a man doesn't equate to getting married. There are women and baby mamas that can keep a man but they still don't have ring. 
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The person who cooks makes the plates.

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i just like making plates in general.
not only for him...but for everyone..
its the hostess in me.

i lauce.
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Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

i just like making plates in general.
not only for him...but for everyone..
its the hostess in me.

i lauce.

lies. i aint eva had a plate. u did share ur food though
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Originally posted by 313chick 313chick wrote:

Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:

Originally posted by 313chick 313chick wrote:

Originally posted by Jr1127 Jr1127 wrote:

Maybe as a wife for me to fix his plate but not as a girlfriend.
this and if I did fix his plate it would be only for special occasions like his birthday, holidays or when he is going through something difficult. I just don't believe in giving a man all of wife benefits if I'm only his girlfriend.Because whats the point of him marrying me then...

So how will he know what kind of wife you will be if you don't treat him as you would if you were married? 

Some of you will never been able to keep a man.
That should answer your question.  I agree with everything about BoutThatLife Post. If my mother could do it with my father and they are still married today I know there is hope for me.

Just because you can keep a man doesn't equate to getting married. There are women and baby mamas that can keep a man but they still don't have ring. 
High five to you!! How is it by me not fixing a plate as a girlfriend have do with him not seeing if I'm not wife material ? If that the case he never thought I was wife material in the first place.  What say in the Bible Proverbs 18:22 AMP "He who finds a [true] wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord" by that say I have nothing to worry about as a girlfriend not fixing my man a plate.
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

i just like making plates in general.
not only for him...but for everyone..
its the hostess in me.

i lauce.

lies. i aint eva had a plate. u did share ur food though


once i get situated... u and my brother are coming over for dinner n dranks!
i shall make plates!!!
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oh not the plate fixing debate again.
but for mtc, i wouldnt mind it if we are just long term bf/gf but he shouldnt expect it. and that only if he's busy/got his hands full/at my family's home
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I'm a plate fixing woman.
I like stuff like that.

I'm like my mama in relationships bossy and feisty but traditional in alot of ways and domestic
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