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Originally posted by miiszjanae miiszjanae wrote:

A lot of them are rude because this is the innanet and people like to act extra. I assume it's because they wouldn't do it IRL so they do it behind their computers.

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I honestly don't understand the "private vendor" deal. I am sorry but if the quality goes down, it is the vendor fault not people buying from them. There 's a lot of reputable company that have been able to keep their quality standard acceptable. 

comment like " I spent money trying out vendors, I spent months researching, other people should go through that too" why would you want somebody els to go through what you went through if you can help? 
"is it really that serious"? Apparently yes . For hair we are acting like it's some kind of necessity ( food, water) the aftermath of world war 2.

If the members before us had the mentality we have today, this forum and all the information we ALL benefit from today wouldn't exist. 
People are being selfish that s all , you can try to explain the situation however you want at the end it is selfishness because you are holding informations for your own good that might benefit others.

Now people being rude: BHM is like high school: you have the popular people, the mean girls, the bullies, the followers, and the regular crowd.
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Originally posted by Malexandre Malexandre wrote:

I honestly don't understand the "private vendor" deal. I am sorry but if the quality goes down, it is the vendor fault not people buying from them. There 's a lot of reputable company that have been able to keep their quality standard acceptable. 

comment like " I spent money trying out vendors, I spent months researching, other people should go through that too" why would you want somebody els to go through what you went through if you can help? 
"is it really that serious"? Apparently yes . For hair we are acting like it's some kind of necessity ( food, water) the aftermath of world war 2.

If the members before us had the mentality we have today, this forum and all the information we ALL benefit from today wouldn't exist. 
People are being selfish that s all , you can try to explain the situation however you want at the end it is selfishness because you are holding informations for your own good that might benefit others.

Now people being rude: BHM is like high school: you have the popular people, the mean girls, the bullies, the followers, and the regular crowd.
 
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I have witness some of the same things. Even in a forum where black women are supposed to be helping each other, we still manage to tear one another down. Sad Sistas Unhappy
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I take it back, same rant different day! Yawn


Edited by Lwhite1960 - Sep 20 2013 at 10:52pm
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you really have to pray for the folk on here, they aren't well.
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I see..Smh
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Bless yo heart......and BHM will ruin a vendor seen it happen to many times.......
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Originally posted by mzjuicy553 mzjuicy553 wrote:

Since when did weaves & hair become so serious that people have to be mean & rude??? I've been reading topics on the forum for a while now & I mean DAMN! Some of these ladies are so rude! From people talking down to each to people not wanting to share vendors. I mean is it really that serious??? Ive seen women ripped a new one by forum members for asking simple questions. Not to mention I commented on a thread & was replied to very rudely because I guess I used the term virgin yaki. EXCUSE THE HELL OUTTA ME LADY! Some of us are newbies to weave and/or using "virgin" hair. So we are thankful for the information on the forum. But some of you ladies need stop buying hair & buy some manners and/or personalities. Other than that I find most of the ladies very helpful. I guess I just have to bypass the ignorance



Yes it is that serious and even though I agree with majority of what you said, unfortunately it will fall on mostly deaf ears/blind eyes.  But if you think about it, don't be surprised if folks are like that with other things.  Personally I wouldn't take it personal and make full use of the BHM search engine or google's.  Some of the rudeness stems from folks asking the same question over and over and over again and it gets to some people.  Usually I would post an old thread to help a person or a search results.
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Originally posted by KARLIE75 KARLIE75 wrote:

I have witness some of the same things. Even in a forum where black women are supposed to be helping each other, we still manage to tear one another down. Sad Sistas Unhappy



Ma'am, catty behavior is not color exclusive.  Trust. 
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