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She isn't asexual. She has had reg relationships in the past (one's that include sex) I've known her over 10 yrs now this is the first she ever said anything like that to me. She say they kiss each other regularly when they're saying hello or goodbye. hold hands. he kisses her on her forehead also. so he sound affectionate enough. 
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

seriously tho...i've sorta been in that situation with i guy i enjoyed being around (talking and even cuddling) but didn't want to actually eff him.  he wasn't fat or ugly but he just didn't do it for me like that...


yeah.

I think it's very possible.
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lol it will be awkward when he finally musters up the courage to cop a feel
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It's honestly not for you to say what her sexual orientation is, even though you're her friend. Many asexuals have sex when in relationships for lots of different reasons.

Anyway, doesn't matter is she is or isn't. It is possible to be romantically involved but not sexually. As her friend I think you should focus on the positive and not belittle her by calling her selfish or saying it's not a regular relationship. Not that I think you did it out of malice.
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lol

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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


has your friend had sex before? yes

would she like to wait to have sex again until she is married? no, She actually has "baby fever" right now and would like to have a kid before we turn 30. So i would like to think she is dating with a goal. 

if she has never had sex, is she waiting until marriage? n/a

does she do foreplay? i would hope so, ConfusedLOL
 

i dont think she is asexual at all. i just think he doesnt do it for her like Tc stated but idk if i should tel her leave him alone or keep dating hopefully it will turn around. Confused
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


lol it will be awkward when he finally musters up the courage to cop a feel

pretty much. worse case scenario i don't want her to end up in a situation where he does try to cop and it goes bad. 
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

It's honestly not for you to say what her sexual orientation is, even though you're her friend. Many asexuals have sex when in relationships for lots of different reasons.

Anyway, doesn't matter is she is or isn't. It is possible to be romantically involved but not sexually. As her friend I think you should focus on the positive and not belittle her by calling her selfish or saying it's not a regular relationship. Not that I think you did it out of malice.

ok. I KNOW she isn't asexual. I"m not deciding wht her sexual orientation is. 

I did not belittle her. She asked my thoughts and i told her what I thought. That's they type of friendship we have where we keep it all the way, 100. Also I never stated this wasn't a regular relationship because technically they are still dating. I said i have known her to have reg relationships when asked certain questions by other members. 

Considering our other talks about what she is looking for in a man/relationship/situation i gave her a response based on everything. 
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it's really not for anyone (esp. someone who doesn't even know her) to say what her sexual orientation is but it seems like yall want her to be asexual

sure it is one possibility, but not the only one
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It happens.  Twice for me and both were incredibly fine so my friends were like what is the damn problem.   Both gave me a weird vibe.  One actually spent the night with me and slept in the bed with me (knew him for  yrs by then) and never made a move.   I was relieved because it just felt so awkward to be anything more than we were and he was so nice.  She should stop wasting her time and find the dude that makes her want to rip her panties and bra off.      

ETA:  Okay I confess, it was the gay vibe.  I was cool with it as friends but not for datingLOL


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