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this has happened to me a lot. 

its possible 
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she is dating him............so I am assuming she (and he) were hoping things would evolve sexually/romantically

I never dated someone with the hopes of just being friends

now I have had males friends I was never sexually attracted to but we never dated, ever


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Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

isnt that called a friend?

That's what I said. But she said no because she actually likes him and has feelings for him and can see herself in a relationship with him (based on their courtship) .I said you are being selfish.
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she may not yearn to have sex with him… but is she saying she knows she'll refuse to have sex with him..? 

i have liked guys and wanted to be in a relationship.. but i didnt wanna have sex with them (for various reasons) 
like id be okay to never have sex probably.. but id still do it to make him happy. 


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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


she is dating him............so I am assuming she (and he) were hoping things would evolve sexually/romantically

I never dated someone with the hopes of just being friends

now I have had males friends I was never sexually attracted to but we never dated, ever

I told her if he isn"t bringing up the sexual aspect of the relationship right now they can continue dating but what if she never starts to see him in that light when they do get to that bridge its gonna be pretty awkward. 
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wrong thread


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Dicey situation. I've kind of been there and I handled that all wrong. Curious to hear other people's advice.
At the end of the day, she's gonna have to come clean, even at the risk of losing his friendship. A relationship without satisfying sex is doomed unless both parties are asexual.

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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

she may not yearn to have sex with him… but is she saying she knows she'll refuse to have sex with him..? 

i have liked guys and wanted to be in a relationship.. but i didnt wanna have sex with them (for various reasons) 
like id be okay to never have sex probably.. but id still do it to make him happy. 



She said she don't see herself being sexually attracted to him. She said in the 3-4 months they have been dating not once did she say to herself "damn he looking good today" Confused 

I'm gonna start judging my friends. LOLLOLLOLLOL. i said so why the hell did you give him your number to begin with. She said she didn't think anything of it or that he would even call. She gave him a fake name when they first met also. i think maybe he will grow on her. ConfusedConfused
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It's not selfish to have a romantic relationship that doesn't include sex as long as both people are ok with it.

Everyone is not interested in sex or experiences sexual attraction or sees it as a fun activity.

The only time this hasn't worked for me is when the person chose to believe I was celibate and would eventually come around...they just ended up disappointed.
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has she spoken to him about not wanting to have sex? has he attempted to get the panties?
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